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Member #4110
03-11-06, 08:29
I just finished a most successful and pleasurable threesome. While I am drawing a bath for myself, I thought I'd try to figure out what makes a threesome work. Now I am no expert here: I have done only 5 threesomes in my life, 2 here, 1 in Thailand, and 2 in Costa Rica. So please add or quality what I have to say.

First I have to say that I have no interest in watching lesbian acts. I fast-forward those scenes in porno movies. So when I am trying to choose two chicas, I am not interested as to whether they are hot for each other. Given this idiosyncrasy that, I am sure, many guys do not share, here are my tentative rules for having a great threesome:

1. They have to be comfortable with each other, and I think I can sense that in their body language when they talk with each other. The best thing is if they have worked together in the past and if they can talk about it comfortably.

2. They shouldn't be best friends who have never done a threesome with each other. I made this mistake twice: as soon as one of their mouths gets close to the other's ****, both of them start laughing out of nervousness. They have no idea how they feel about this new kind of relationship to each other. This is a non-sexy situation: very deflating, if you know what I mean.

3. You can't let them talk on and on with each other about their families or hardships. The best way to deal with this is to put something in the mouth of one of them. One of them can try to keep distracting the other one from the sex, and the worst scenario is when one of them tries to enforce some kind of rule that the other chica is not supposed to have sexual pleasure.

4. One cannot be trying to foster the illusion that she is your novia; the illusion is incompatible with her watching you do the other chica.

5. Both need to be praised for beauty and performance, but the praise needs to be authentic and selective because the other one is watching carefully to see if you are full of bullshit.

6. I try to pick one who is very proud of her oral skills and one who is vaginally oriented. Of course, it would be good if I could have actually experienced both of them in the past, to know for sure. A must is that they both agree enthusiastically, in advance, to using the mouth down there while the other one gets it vaginally. What I try to avoid is one just sitting there or using her cell phone while waiting her turn. It is everyone's turn, for the full time that was agreed upon.

7. My good experiences, like tonight, have involved one chica with whom I had great sex at some previous time. I let her be the leader and I let her help me pick the other chica. Even later in the show time, she can still function as leader. Tonight my favorita, a Portena, chose a little Brasiliana. My Portena is a big, strong girl (not fat at all) and the Brasiliana is a very slim lady. I would never have chosen the Brasiliana for a twosome, but it turned out great to go along with my favorita's choice. I was pleasantly surprised that the Brasiliana's pushed-up breasts were natural, and it turned out that she had a sleek and perfect little butt.

8. Attitude and simple, natural sexuality are huge, and these two ladies really got into it. There was a little nervous laughter, but it was surprising how quickly the laughter changed into orgasmos. My favorita came 4 times (I'm bragging now) and she was mildly upset with me that I stopped out of exhaustion just when she was heading for her 5th. The Brasiliana also came easily, three times. They both tried to make me harder with their mouths so that the other one could enjoy me more with their cunts. A good **** loves it hard. That's what I want, the fantasy I can live on now for months. Then they were most generous to me. I love a woman who just automatically responds to cock, and both of these did (and certainly not all do)

9. I try to convince them that we will be doing this again some time. It is true when things are good, and it seems to be effective.

10. Even in the best circumstances, like tonight, things can go wrong. We had the damndest time getting into positions that the porn stars can do so easily -- I got a cramp. For example. There is so much going on, with two persons talking in a language I do not understand, and with all those body parts, that sometimes I just get confused, which is not erotic. So, patience is necessary, on my part as well as on the parts of both of them. Given a little patience, problem-solving, and good will, everyone gets his or hers.

That's all I can think of for now. It is lights out at 7:15 and people are going to work. I am going to bathe and sleep happily.

Late edit the next day after seeing all the condoms all over the floor:
11. Have lots of condoms ready in advance. The second chica doesn't want the first chica's **** juice planted deep inside her, and I can see her point. **** juice is relatively safe in terms of HIV if the woman does not have a very high virus loading, but the warm jungle of a woman's vagina is terribly sensitive to just about any kind of cootie. In all five of my experiences in threesomes, one or the other of the ladies asked for condom nueva. Last night, we turned that into a little ritual, with lots of sucking and licking to mark the donning of the new condom.

El Perro
03-11-06, 11:15
Congrats on your troika. Not a bad "to do" list. Did you "stack 'em" doggstyle and go from one to the other like in the movies? I always thought the visuals on that would be nice, though in practice a little awkward. Any spanking? Fondillo probing? Spit shining? Did you 69 with one, while having the other hum "Onward Christian Soldiers"?

Hunt99
03-11-06, 11:41
Good observations by Riverm. The key is that they have to like each other. I have also found that having your favorita pick out a third makes for a better time. Of course, it also helps if she likes to stick her tongue up another chica's cooz. ;)

Member #4110
03-11-06, 13:48
Both these ladies asked for a fresh condom whenever I switched from one to the other vaginally, but all the oral was sin condom. It appeared to be something they had talked about in advance. I can see their point, given the vagina's vulnerability to all kinds of little cooties.

So that put limits on things. Quick switches from one to the other as in the movies would have been impossible. Luckily, my fantasy is to have vaginal sex with one while being kissed or licked on the perineum (not the anus) and on the balls. It's a special feeling. Although most American and Canadian ladies refuse to do this, it appears that most chicas here see this is part of of the regular job description. The best way to manage it is a side-lying position behind one chica's butt, with the other's body on the other side, heading south, with her head between my legs. Also you can do doggie or either cowboy, but for some reason, I have never liked cowboy (neurotic gringo requires control) In doggie, I have found that the lady sharing her vagina has to do most of the moving (or be moved by my pulling her hips back and forth) because my thrusting can whack the nose or chin of the chica down under.

So, because you ask, what we did last night was really four sustained sessions of screwing: first with my favorita, who was awfully horny, which was a good thing, then back and forth: equal time. Each mini-session lasted about 10 minutes, long enough for these ladies to get off. In between each of the four little sessions, there was a little rest period for me while they showered me with kisses, blowjobs, and more licking, except for the extra time-out of 5-10 minutes before the 4th session, where we talked about our aspirations in life, as well as you can within the context of a 200-word vocabulary and no understanding of verb formations.

In retrospect as I write this, I have to say that this was one of my best sexual experiences in my old life, and I feel very grateful to these two ladies. Not for a minute do I think that they do this work for the sexual pleasure, but the fact that they can relax and just get into it is a gift from the heavens.

Marak5
03-27-06, 03:27
I have done it 3 times, each time out of affaire.

2 times I did it when the girls approached me as a tag team.

The other time, a girl suggested her friend. It had a lot more to do with drumming up some business for the friend than with any sexual chemistry between the two.

All 3 were failures. Changing condoms like 5 times, no girl girl contact. Basically one fucked me while the other kissed me or rubbed me. I'd have been happier just taking 1 girl.

Actually, most girls I have pulled from affaire have been pretty shitty service now that I think of it. I get better service out of blacks and medahos than I do from that place.

Nibu Raphael
03-27-06, 15:26
Hey Marak I have done threesomes many times before but as my memory recalls mostly in lima peru and mexico city. Yes I got your p. M. Thru the isg site. You must be a polack like me. My buddy judd has met you before. I talked with him last night on the cell phone. Cell to cell I think or maybe I called upo his house phone not sure. Judd said you also look like elvis costelo. I guess he said you are a cool dude more or lees but he says you sometimes post hard responses on people. You seem alright to me. O. K. On to threesomes in lima peru you can do threesomes so cheap. If you ever have been to lima peru just pick up the sleazy papers of chino, aja and men. Lot of sleazy cheap ads for girls with houses. Ha speaking of threesomes I did a 4some once in mexico city. I picked up 3 girls on the street took them to like a 15 buck hotel and even bought them a double dong dildo once. Two of them I asked too fuck each other pussy to pussy but they would not do that. I did make them suck each head of the dildo. The other chick was touching the middle of the dildo. The worst was trying to ditch that double dong the next morning. I just ditched by a tree on a street. I wonder who then picked that up right away? that would of been a scene to see for sure. I know certain mongers here on the isg / argentina private. Com bring sex toys from the you. S. Here for chicks but would not that be embarraising if you. S. Customs looks at that in front of you with everyone watching?