View Full Version : A topic , which I wanted to discuss with other mongers
Member #3320
11-01-12, 16:24
For the record.
She has gotten out of the business and is attempting to pursue a "normal" life not in Argentina. I wish her luckDo working girls ever able to pursue normal life?
Especially the ones who are not just 3-4 days in business but have spent at least a good 2-3 yrs and have been with over 500 men and used to getting money from men for sex, used to sucking different kind of cocks and viewing men as means to earn money.
Do they ever become normal? Seriously?
Daddy Rulz
11-01-12, 17:40
Do working girls ever able to pursue normal life?
Especially the ones who are not just 3-4 days in business but have spent at least a good 2-3 yrs and have been with over 500 men and used to getting money from men for sex, used to sucking different kind of cocks and viewing men as means to earn money.
Do they ever become normal? Seriously?I know two, and one was not in the business that long, the other was in it for a year or two. As far as a hardened pro I don't know but think it would be difficult. I think they would have to transition out first into a regular life.
Do working girls ever able to pursue normal life?
Especially the ones who are not just 3-4 days in business but have spent at least a good 2-3 yrs and have been with over 500 men and used to getting money from men for sex, used to sucking different kind of cocks and viewing men as means to earn money.
Do they ever become normal? Seriously?Depends where, I knew a few in Brazil that were married and working in termas for years. Also chicas who met their now "significant other" while working. That said some were still seeing their "regulars" after supposedly quitting and shacking up.
I know three (one from Catto's, one from Ness, and one from Salomé) who succeeded in completing either high school or trade school and none of the three went back to hooking. But, all have been employed sporadically, unfortunately. All three are hard working although one has health problems. I know a fourth one (from Exedra and Bar Iberia) who managed to parlay a small business into a couple of apartments that she rents, while continuing to run the small business. She is doing the best of the bunch but she is in Perú and not Argentina. Each of these women was in the biz for a couple of years, the Peruvian probably the longest like maybe six years, although not hooking continuously during that time frame. She was already a high school graduate and had completed a year of college in Perú before she came to BA to rent her pussy (and her ass too).
It can for sure be done. But for each of these four I can name 25 others that had plans to do this or that but are still selling their pussies after say ten years of knowing them.
Do working girls ever able to pursue normal life?
Especially the ones who are not just 3-4 days in business but have spent at least a good 2-3 yrs and have been with over 500 men and used to getting money from men for sex, used to sucking different kind of cocks and viewing men as means to earn money.
Do they ever become normal? Seriously?Define "normal". Either in "to pursue a normal life" or "ever become normal".
Define "normal". Either in "to pursue a normal life" or "ever become normal".You mean like how if Erika ever accidentally got a job, she would still be a freak?
Member #3320
11-01-12, 18:17
Define "normal". Either in "to pursue a normal life" or "ever become normal".Good question.
Actually, I was not really concerned about if they managed to get a normal job etc.
What I really meant to ask was, do they ever get into a "normal" aka civilized relationship with a man, long term. That is where they live as man and wife or at least as a couple, where sex is not the main agenda, as the purpose of living together!
I mean, someone who has sucked over 500 cocks, won't she get bored of sucking just one cock all her life? Or does she actually negotiate with the man, that she needs her fill every now and then?
Does she respect the man who actually proposes to her or she thinks,"This guy is a wimp to fall for me!"
Does she miss enjoying different kind of bodies on a daily basis? A lame query but am intrigued.
Does she treat the husband / the man who proposed to her, as a permanent client, a means of income or does she respect him for "rescuing" her?
I mean, none of us know the answer. But it would be great if we could have a discussion. I am pretty intrigued by this topic.
Good question.
Actually, I was not really concerned about if they managed to get a normal job etc.
What I really meant to ask was, do they ever get into a "normal" aka civilized relationship with a man, long term. That is where they live as man and wife or at least as a couple, where sex is not the main agenda, as the purpose of living together!
I mean, someone who has sucked over 500 cocks, won't she get bored of sucking just one cock all her life? Or does she actually negotiate with the man, that she needs her fill every now and then?
Does she respect the man who actually proposes to her or she thinks,"This guy is a wimp to fall for me!"
Does she miss enjoying different kind of bodies on a daily basis? A lame query but am intrigued.
Does she treat the husband / the man who proposed to her, as a permanent client, a means of income or does she respect him for "rescuing" her?
I mean, none of us know the answer. But it would be great if we could have a discussion. I am pretty intrigued by this topic.IMHO there isn't much of a "normal" baseline. Even more so if you limit the discussion to battle of sexes issues, marital or otherwise. Outside of the "500 cocks" criteria, the questions you note could be asked of damn near any woman, not just hookers. I grant you that hookers are probably apt to have more "difficult" or "contentious" or "unpredictable" relationships with men (while they're hooking or afterwards) , than some sort of subset of "normal" women, but to what degree? Who knows! And a significant percentage of the subset of "normal women" have troubled relationships as well. Look at the divorce rate.
Bottom line-I don't think there's all that much difference from hookers and "normal" chicks when it comes to relationship issues involving sex, money and control. There's a bunch of "normal" chicks who are crazy as batshit. They're just not, or haven't been, hookers. But, they have been in relationships where the "exchange" of money and sex was the driving force to maintain the relationship. When is it not?
Well, the one from Salomé was in a long-term stable relationship that started while she was still working there. The relationship survived him discovering she was not actually the night supervisor at an old folks' home and years later discovering that her lesbian friend from the US was really me. She is still with him; it has been 7 years now. We finally stopped seeing each other because she wanted to do right by him. But, she did say that sexual boredom was for sure an issue. Sexual boredom is probably an issue at some point in most marriages whether there are hookers involved or not, right?
The one from Ness has been through a couple of 'normal' relationships, one resulting in a kid and lasting a couple of years and another lasting a year or so in which they lived together off and on. Neither relationship worked and of course I was fucking her the whole time. She is single now and sort of would like a boyfriend but not another pareja, she says.
The other two have never been in any kind of long term relationship unless you want to count the monger who accidentally got engaged to one of them but I would not call that normal.
Member #3320
11-01-12, 23:50
Bottom line-I don't think there's all that much difference from hookers and "normal" chicks when it comes to relationship issues involving sex, money and control. There's a bunch of "normal" chicks who are crazy as batshit. They're just not, or haven't been, hookers. But, they have been in relationships where the "exchange" of money and sex was the driving force to maintain the relationship. When is it not?Though the idea of this discussion is to get everyone's viewpoints. However, I disagree with the statement above. And the reasons are that the perspective discussed by the monger above with regards to "non-pro" chica is typically with regards to typical western bred chicas from US or Europe who like to take the man's role and who really have no respect for the modern man.
Let me narrow my discussion a bit more. My query was more with chicas who work as pros in poor countries such as Argentina, Paraguay, Peru, Thailand, Philippines. I am quiet sure that these pro chicas from poor countries take up the profession due to financial problems / to support family and not because as a love of this profession. So when these chicas actually get in a relationship with a guy, does it make them appreciate it, that they no more have to suck strange cocks for a living.
I also feel the eastern non-pro chicas or Latin chicas are more submissive than western chicas and not really looking to become "Alpha" in the relationship. Its not really about "control".
One common characteristic of the ones I knew who succeeded in doing something else with their lives was that when they were hooking, they weren't hanging out with other hookers 24-7. Each had at least one other guiding force in their lives. Also none got into drugs. One had some issues with booze but more not being able to handle it than being addicted to it. Of course most 100 lb women that try to drink with me will have some issues at some point. A sad fact that has to be recognized is that when I say none of these women has gone back to hooking, it is probably still necessary to append the word 'yet. ' In each case it has been at least three years but to some extent I acknowledge some truth in the concept of 'once a hooker, always a hooker. '
Morgando69
11-02-12, 00:37
This is a very interesting debate. Let me give you my perspective. Before I married my wife we had massive amounts of fantastic sex. After we got married we had massive amounts of fantastic sex. After we had children we have had virtually no sex. I saved my wife from sucking the cocks of boyfriends she thought might be potential husbands. But I don't think the wakes up most mornings and says to herself ' I love my husband because I don't have to have sex with men I hardly know anymore. ' Most of my male friends tell the same story. Which is why the very honorable profession of prostitution exists. I doubt very much that women who provide sexual services for money and who have to pretend they are enjoying themselves most of the time, would be any different. The girls who get the highest ratings on this board are those who provide GFE, why? Because as men we still want to think that we are attractive to the opposite sex. Now, there might well be professional girls out there who are nymphomaniacs and thoroughly enjoy sex with 20 different men of all different nationalities, shapes and sizes in one week. But good luck finding them! And if you did find them, would you want to have a long term relationship with them? In my experience (and I have met one nympho in my life) she will be a free spirited non professional amateur and will scare the pants off you.
Though the idea of this discussion is to get everyone's viewpoints. However, I disagree with the statement above. And the reasons are that the perspective discussed by the monger above with regards to "non-pro" chica is typically with regards to typical western bred chicas from US or Europe who like to take the man's role and who really have no respect for the modern man.
Let me narrow my discussion a bit more. My query was more with chicas who work as pros in poor countries such as Argentina, Paraguay, Peru, Thailand, Philippines. I am quiet sure that these pro chicas from poor countries take up the profession due to financial problems / to support family and not because as a love of this profession. So when these chicas actually get in a relationship with a guy, does it make them appreciate it, that they no more have to suck strange cocks for a living.
I also feel the eastern non-pro chicas or Latin chicas are more submissive than western chicas and not really looking to become "Alpha" in the relationship. Its not really about "control".
Member #3320
11-02-12, 01:00
Thanks@Morgando69. Excellent perspective.
I think one of the best answers can be given by a guy who is in a relationship with a ex-working girl.
However, I have also seen that when men marry poor girls ( not pros but just poor girls), rarely the poor girls appreciate the man. Its all about "money", "money" and more money. I have seen them sucking the blood of the man ( literally speaking) to make him support her family, brothers education, buy property, pay off her family loans. I have seen this a lot in my life experiences. Kind of sucks. Makes me wonder the girls who suck 20 cocks a week are perhaps a bit more appreciative?
Personally I would not be scared off by a free-spirited nymphomaniac but it is important to note that your classic nymphomaniac is non-orgasmic or 'frigid,' to use a more archaic but familiar term. That can be hard on the id and the ego. I met a few of these but I could not really appreciate them in the context of what I was looking for at the time. Now I wish I could meet some more because I would know how to enjoy them without exploiting them, and I would not try to 'solve their problem.' The thing about no sex after marriage really is more about no sex after children. Just reading that sentence should provide an obvious solution but it seems relatively few people go that route.
We have known a few professional women who were total sex freaks who really felt like fucking for money was the best of both worlds, and were readily orgasmic with clients and so forth. La mexicana comes to mind. A hundred or so of us have experienced that phenomenon. The Savage Beast was another one. The peruvian sisters who worked in Catto's (not to be confused with the peruvian sisters who worked in Exedra, one of whom had a stanky pussy) were like that too. They were not yet at the analytical stage. They were at the we are having hot sex with guys who are giving us money stage.
So when you get into fucking one of these hookers on a regular basis, you have to get good at recognizing the inflection points where they go from soft to hard or begin to develop GPS. Then you have to be pragmatic enough to cut them from the program when they do.
Morgando69
11-02-12, 01:10
Its not just poor girls. Rich girls have the same expectations once you have been dumb enough to suggest that you will take care of them.
Thanks@Morgando69. Excellent perspective.
I think one of the best answers can be given by a guy who is in a relationship with a ex-working girl.
However, I have also seen that when men marry poor girls (not pros but just poor girls) , rarely the poor girls appreciate the man. Its all about "money","money" and more money. I have seen them sucking the blood of the man (literally speaking) to make him support her family, brothers education, buy property, pay off her family loans. I have seen this a lot in my life experiences. Kind of sucks. Makes me wonder the girls who suck 20 cocks a week are perhaps a bit more appreciative?
Thanks@Morgando69. Excellent perspective.
I think one of the best answers can be given by a guy who is in a relationship with a ex-working girl.
However, I have also seen that when marry poor girls (not pros but just poor girls) , rarely the poor girls appreciate the man. Its all about "money","money" and more money. I have seen them sucking the blood of the man (literally speaking) to make him support her family, brothers education, buy property, pay off her family loans. I have seen this a lot in my life experiences. Kind of sucks. Makes me wonder the girls who suck 20 cocks a week are perhaps a bit more appreciative?From this I conclude you are Asian. If you were latino they might do all of the above except the brother's education. Correct me if I am wrong. There are quite a few examples among board members who have relationships with former (?) working girls. I doubt many will weigh in on the subject. I don't envy any of those people, actually, based on what I have seen. I like working girls but I never found one that came close to being relationship material. I am picky, though. A lot of guys just don't want to be single for various reasons and those tend to be the vulnerable ones.
Its not just poor girls. Rich girls have the same expectations once you have been dumb enough to suggest that you will take care of them.Who the fuck would be dumb enough to suggest that? They are already rich. What am I missing here?
Member #3320
11-02-12, 01:20
Its not just poor girls. Rich girls have the same expectations once you have been dumb enough to suggest that you will take care of them.You are out of yr mind. On the contrary, I have seen poor guys married to rich girls and leading the most pathetic life. The rich girls treating the poor guys like shit and almost making them as if the guy was their servant!
Morgando69
11-02-12, 01:20
Spot on analysis. The point is. With amateurs or professionals. Don't mistake mind blowing sex with love or anything permanent. Enjoy it whilst it lasts, but to expect gratitude is a very silly mistake. I don't even get that from my cocker spaniel.
Personally I would not be scared off by a free-spirited nymphomaniac but it is important to note that your classic nymphomaniac is non-orgasmic or 'frigid, ' to use a more archaic but familiar term. That can be hard on the I'd and the ego. I met a few of these but I could not really appreciate them in the context of what I was looking for at the time. Now I wish I could meet some more because I would know how to enjoy them without exploiting them, and I would not try to 'solve their problem. ' The thing about no sex after marriage really is more about no sex after children. Just reading that sentence should provide an obvious solution but it seems relatively few people go that route.
We have known a few professional women who were total sex freaks who really felt like fucking for money was the best of both worlds, and were readily orgasmic with clients and so forth. La mexicana comes to mind. A hundred or so of us have experienced that phenomenon. The Savage Beast was another one. The peruvian sisters who worked in Catto's (not to be confused with the peruvian sisters who worked in Exedra, one of whom had a stanky pussy) were like that too. They were not yet at the analytical stage. They were at the we are having hot sex with guys who are giving us money stage.
So when you get into fucking one of these hookers on a regular basis, you have to get good at recognizing the inflection points where they go from soft to hard or begin to develop GPS. Then you have to be pragmatic enough to cut them from the program when they do.
Member #3320
11-02-12, 01:26
but to expect gratitude is a very silly mistake. I don't even get that from my cocker spaniel.And why not expect gratitude? A woman is not supposed to be sleeping with 500 men. In Asian culture, especially, a woman is looked down up on, if its known she worked as a hooker or got raped or slept with a man other than her husband. From that point of view, should she not be grateful to the man who "accepts" her.
However, in the Latin concept, I guess no one cares how many cocks she has sucked. And she instead of feeling grateful to him, think on the contrary, that she is doing a favor by choosing him! Funny, right!
However, believe it or not, I got dumped by her when I tried to be "nice" to her.So I will take that as a yes that you are Asian. It's just that we see different patterns among the mongers who 'get involved. ' Here is the key phrase:
'However, believe it or not, I got dumped by her when I tried to be "nice" to her. '
A latino would never have tried to be nice to her. Note that 'latino' includes 'italiano' for the purpose of this analysis.
Morgando69
11-02-12, 01:29
You take on the responsibility of keeping the money flowing. Now thats pressure.
Who the fuck would be dumb enough to suggest that? They are already rich. What am I missing here?
Member #3320
11-02-12, 01:31
So I will take that as a yes that you are Asian. It's just that we see different patterns among the mongers who 'get involved. ' Here is the key phrase:
'However, believe it or not, I got dumped by her when I tried to be "nice" to her. '
A latino would never have tried to be nice to her. Note that 'latino' includes 'italiano' for the purpose of this analysis.Ha ha. You have never seen European or American men being "nice" to a woman?
And why not expect gratitude? A woman is not supposed to be sleeping with 500 men. In Asian culture, especially, a woman is looked down up on, if its known she worked as a hooker or got raped or slept with a man other than her husband. From that point of view, should she not be grateful to the man who "accepts" her.
However, in the Latin concept, I guess no one cares how many cocks she has sucked. And she instead of feeling grateful to him, think on the contrary, that she is doing a favor by choosing him! Funny, right!So now your point of view and agenda is being revealed. Women who have been raped should be looked down on. You can fuck as many hookers as you want but she should be a virgin. I get it. Nothing new here. Suerte.
Ha ha. You have never seen European or American men being "nice" to a woman?Reading comprehension check. I have never seen a latino being nice to a woman, except on a ridiculously superficial level.
You take on the responsibility of keeping the money flowing. Now thats pressure.Right, so who the fuck would be dumb enough to do that? Pressure is beneficial? I get that you were the one who was dumb enough, but why?
Member #3320
11-02-12, 01:37
So now your agenda is being revealed.Ha ha! No agenda. Just trying to spice up the board. And its so much talking to mongers about such topics. Like minded people think alike! I can't discuss this topic with the non-pro chicas who are reading this board. Ja ja ja!
I do not believe that non pro chicas read this board in any significant numbers. I would further argue that if a chica is reading this board, the likelihood of her being a non pro is minuscule at best. Finally, I would postulate that few argentinian women are non pros.
Member #3320
11-02-12, 01:58
few argentinian women are non pros.I know at least 8-9 caucasian women from Europe or US, who read this board. I believe, they are well to do non-pro girls. Unless they have double lives!
I know at least 8-9 caucasian women from Europe or US, who read this board. I believe, they are well to do non-pro girls. Unless they have double lives!Unless you have shown them the board, I flat out don't believe you.
Member #3320
11-02-12, 02:29
Unless you have shown them the board, I flat out don't believe you.If I would have shown them the board, I would not be posting here the way I am posting. If you don't believe or anyone does not believe, its up to the person. I have no money or sex to gain by stating this. In fact the first time when a caucasian chica told me this " the earth almost opened from beneath my feet and swallowed me!" I know at least 100 odd non pros ( Argies and Caucasian expats) in BA for social reasons, after being here for 4-5 yrs off and on. And to be honest, BA is a very small place, when it comes to just Capital Federal. This board is well known to most of the expat men who live here full time. They in turn show this board to the expat women. Sometimes, these men are in relationship with expat women and show this board to them for fun reasons. Sometimes, the woman is trying to pry on her man by investigating his computer and discovers this site by chance. Sometimes, one expat woman reveals it to 1-2 of her friends of this site. Some of the expat woman I know, perform strip tease shows for Asian men on the internet to supplement their income in BA, and are pretty much in grips with sex scene of BA, which includes knowing this board. Etc etc etc But anyway, you don't have to believe me.
OK, so now we see the discrepancy. You view expat women who give strip shows to Asian men as non-pros, whereas I think they are whoares. That is probably an immutable difference.
Member #3320
11-02-12, 02:42
OK, so now we see the discrepancy. You view expat women who give strip shows to Asian men as non-pros, whereas I think they are whoares. That is probably an immutable difference.Their is no discrepancy. You started doubting the integrity of my posts. So I had to give you more details. The stripper kind is just 1-2 of them. Not the entire lot!
I am not really doubting the integrity of your posts so much as I think you are being fairly routinely deceived.
Member #3320
11-02-12, 02:53
you are being fairly routinely deceived.Ha ha! Insane! Thats a preposterous suggestion!
I can only talk about the Los Angeles area, although I have partake in various locations around the US. They started to take off in the early 80s when the Korean immigration started to really to flow. As far as I know, the staff were amateur housewives and daughters of immigrants whose favorite choice to survive and prosper was to start a small business. And that meant they needed a fair amount of seed money. Even though many of them were successful and had good jobs in Korea, their lack of English meant that they had to start all over again in the US. And when you have a growing family, they had to achieve this in a hurry, thus, the sacrifice of female family members for the greater good. And when this was accomplished, the women went back to normal life. Now I have no information as to the social & psychological consequences of this phenomenon. Koreans are very tight-lipped in regard to it. Maybe you did not know it, you would be turned away if they believe you was a male Korean, that was no-no. And as far as I know, the Korean women that worked in LA were from elsewhere in the States, LA Korean women would go elsewhere, they did not do it in their own hometown to safeguard their privacy. Both from a personal standpoint and if in case they got busted, their parents / kids / spouse would not be humiliated.
Later, when the amateur source started to dried up, they started to smuggle illegal Korean chicks in. They tend to be younger, and were supplemented by the young Korean girls who grew up in the US. Hence, New York and California were the best for this type of action, surprisingly, Atlanta was also very good. Many of them also had a mix of Vietnamese, Filipino, Thai and other Asians. Never did I ever encounter any Indians, Pakistanis, etc. With the fading of Koreans, we saw an increase of mainland Chinese, most of them illegal.
Asian massage spas are fighting for their lives these days. Most are poorly staffed, prices are very high, and service is a far cry from the days when mama-san ran a tight ship and you would get your money's worth. I am smiling as I write because of the wonderful memories and pleasure I had. Another rich chapter of the American sex saga.
So essentially you are looking for a forum where you can postulate your views and then just routinely repudiate the resulting dissent. That isn't actually that interesting.
-As far as I know, the staff were amateur housewives and daughters of immigrants whose favorite choice to survive and prosper was to start a small business. And that meant they needed a fair amount of seed money. Even though many of them were successful and had good jobs in Korea, their lack of English meant that they had to start all over again in the US. And when you have a growing family, they had to achieve this in a hurry, thus, the sacrifice of female family members for the greater good. And when this was accomplished, the women went back to normal life.
-Maybe you did not know it, you would be turned away if they believe you was a male Korean, that was no-no. And as far as I know, the Korean women that worked in LA were from elsewhere in the States, LA Korean women would go elsewhere, they did not do it in their own hometown to safeguard their privacy.
-Later, when the amateur source started to dried up, they started to smuggle illegal Korean chicks in. They tend to be younger, and were supplemented by the young Korean girls who grew up in the US.While I live in BsAs currently, native californian and Los Angeles is also my home and has been for quite some while.
-Everyone's entitled to their opinion, so here's mine: there are virtually NO amateur housewives and daughters of korean american immigrants working in k-town or surrounding MPs. There may be a few here and there working as individual escorts, but on topic of asian / korean MPs, the reason the stereotype of the hard working korean american immigrant family exists is because the vast majority of these daughters and wives are working their ass off in school to climb to the next ladder of social status or working in their family owned business. My opinion is that you are confusing fresh off the boat tourist visa koreans brought solely for the purpose of working in these MPs. They can be illegal but a huge number are not. Short stay tourist or student visas are fairly easy to get for koreans and many come for a summer or short stay to earn cash in the MPs, far away from the stigma of home if discovered.
-Male koreans turned away. Must be a different LA we both live in. I have never heard of even the whisper of korean males, fresh off the boat, first gen korean americans, or americans of korean descent being turned away. The dollar is king, you have it, you get in. And again, most korean women working in these MPs are not from the states. Those other state korean immigrants are doing what the stereotype suggests. Working insanely 7 days a week if needed to build their family business into something that will allow their younger first gen children or siblings to achieve the american dream.
-There are definitely some illegal korean women being smuggled in. But unlike from many other asian countries, it is a lot easier to obtain family, student, or work visas. The majority of them are legals that got in via colorful pretense of studying abroad on student visa, work visa, or tourist visa.
If I would have shown them the board, I would not be posting here the way I am posting. If you don't believe or anyone does not believe, its up to the person. I have no money or sex to gain by stating this. In fact the first time when a caucasian chica told me this " the earth almost opened from beneath my feet and swallowed me!" I know at least 100 odd non pros ( Argies and Caucasian expats) in BA for social reasons, after being here for 4-5 yrs off and on. And to be honest, BA is a very small place, when it comes to just Capital Federal. This board is well known to most of the expat men who live here full time. They in turn show this board to the expat women. Sometimes, these men are in relationship with expat women and show this board to them for fun reasons. Sometimes, the woman is trying to pry on her man by investigating his computer and discovers this site by chance. Sometimes, one expat woman reveals it to 1-2 of her friends of this site. Some of the expat woman I know, perform strip tease shows for Asian men on the internet to supplement their income in BA, and are pretty much in grips with sex scene of BA, which includes knowing this board. Etc etc etc But anyway, you don't have to believe me.I'm not getting between any sides here. Just going to state what I hope is a pretty obvious fact.
Sure. Someone can go the roundabout way of "discovering" this board from their spouse, man friend, whatever. Or be shown it by the guy. But come on, let's use some common sense. Probably to Jackson's delight and actual planning, this board is VERY well picked up, indexed, and displayed on a HUGE amount of english Google queries having to do with just about anything in Buenos Aires.
You don't even have to be searching for sex. Our exchanging currency and many other how-to-live in buenos aires are popular and highly ranked Google organic results.
A woman doesn't need to be spying on her man to find this board. All she needs to do is not be computer illiterate, use Google on any number of normal, routine, topics, and find a prominent link to this board. She may even click it thinking it's a board like the expats one but of course find out it is not.
When you hear hooves, think horses. No reason to go to zebras.
And why not expect gratitude? A woman is not supposed to be sleeping with 500 men. In Asian culture, especially, a woman is looked down up on, if its known she worked as a hooker or got raped or slept with a man other than her husband. From that point of view, should she not be grateful to the man who "accepts" her.
However, in the Latin concept, I guess no one cares how many cocks she has sucked. And she instead of feeling grateful to him, think on the contrary, that she is doing a favor by choosing him! Funny, right!There is a reason it is called The Worlds Oldest Profession, prostitutes in some form or other have been around since the beginning of time. They were "looked down upon" by the same people that used their services, or their wives. LOL
While I live in BsAs currently, native californian and Los Angeles is also my home and has been for quite some while.
-Everyone's entitled to their opinion, so here's mine: there are virtually NO amateur housewives and daughters of korean american immigrants working in k-town or surrounding MPs. There may be a few here and there working as individual escorts, but on topic of asian / korean MPs, the reason the stereotype of the hard working korean american immigrant family exists is because the vast majority of these daughters and wives are working their ass off in school to climb to the next ladder of social status or working in their family owned business. My opinion is that you are confusing fresh off the boat tourist visa koreans brought solely for the purpose of working in these MPs. They can be illegal but a huge number are not. Short stay tourist or student visas are fairly easy to get for koreans and many come for a summer or short stay to earn cash in the MPs, far away from the stigma of home if discovered.
-Male koreans turned away. Must be a different LA we both live in. I have never heard of even the whisper of korean males, fresh off the boat, first gen korean americans, or americans of korean descent being turned away. The dollar is king, you have it, you get in. And again, most korean women working in these MPs are not from the states. Those other state korean immigrants are doing what the stereotype suggests. Working insanely 7 days a week if needed to build their family business into something that will allow their younger first gen children or siblings to achieve the american dream.
-There are definitely some illegal korean women being smuggled in. But unlike from many other asian countries, it is a lot easier to obtain family, student, or work visas. The majority of them are legals that got in via colorful pretense of studying abroad on student visa, work visa, or tourist visa.What I wrote is just personal experiences and opinions, I don't claim to be AMP expert. The current scene is quite different than when it surfaced in the in the late 70s. I think I went to my first one around 77 or 78 on Magnolia in North Hollywood. Then the scene got more intense in conjunction with Korean immigration and the spread of Koreantown. The only action I had in Koreantown was a hairdresser salon that turned into a illegal AMP a block from Wilshire in a smaller street parallel to Western. In those days, women were mainly in the late 20s and up till 40s. Alot of fun, great service, good prices, no hardened pros or some of the women the GIs brought home that they had met in strip clubs. Rejected a few times, but was allowed in after verbal proof I was not Korean. So there you go. Perhaps, my exposure was earlier than yours? Most AMPs in LA are not in Koreantown except for the legit sauna spas.
I am not sure when law enforcement started to put on the heat, I believe it was in the late 90s. By then, I did notice that women started to get younger. There were really some outstanding girls in the Inglewood / Santa Monica AMPs. Prices went up, service started to suck, more jell, etc. I had then started to go to Mexico, then Asia, and eventually South America.
I would like to say that I really respected these women, they were doing what their Irish, Jewish, Italian, Vietnamese sisters had to do in the American saga. We all know the Korean economic story. Korean immigrants and their subsequent success in America added to the American mosiac. Anybody who never had Korean food, be sure to try to their beef dishes, even in BA. Many times, I had envision a Korean wife. In fact, it was suggested to me a few times by AMP girls, but I knew that I had to have some martial arts training for self preservation. One time, after entering an AMP and viewing the girls there, I rejected them all and did not make the right polite noises to give face, and was kicked in the ass as I turned and started to leave the premise. So I turned around, took the girl that kicked me, and we had a hell of a session.
Member #3320
11-02-12, 14:12
So essentially you are looking for a forum where you can postulate your views and then just routinely repudiate the resulting dissent. That isn't actually that interesting.Ja ja! No, you are wrong.
I am on the forum to have a simulating conversation with like minded people. Even simulating arguments are interesting as it gets my adrenaline flowing. However, it becomes a bit boring for me when the other party becomes aggressive, or goes too personal or start to disparage the other party. At that point it becomes too fraught for me to concentrate further in the discussion.
You can never win an argument with a negative person. They only hear what suits them and listen only to respond .
Member #3320
11-02-12, 14:17
I'm not getting between any sides here. Just going to state what I hope is a pretty obvious fact.
Sure. Someone can go the roundabout way of "discovering" this board from their spouse, man friend, whatever. Or be shown it by the guy. But come on, let's use some common sense. Probably to Jackson's delight and actual planning, this board is VERY well picked up, indexed, and displayed on a HUGE amount of english Google queries having to do with just about anything in Buenos Aires.
You don't even have to be searching for sex. Our exchanging currency and many other how-to-live in buenos aires are popular and highly ranked Google organic results.
A woman doesn't need to be spying on her man to find this board. All she needs to do is not be computer illiterate, use Google on any number of normal, routine, topics, and find a prominent link to this board. She may even click it thinking it's a board like the expats one but of course find out it is not.
When you hear hooves, think horses. No reason to go to zebras.A very intelligent reply. Thanks. When he stated "I don't believe that so many expat women watch this forum"., I told him some of the reasons, which were actually told to me by the women, who watch this forum. But I guess, you gave even a better answer to "how so many are aware of this forum". I guess in any google search on Buenos Aires, this forum would probably show up, if not on the first page. Thanks, Mpexy. Now I know why you are such a successful man! .
Powered by vBulletin® Version 4.1.4 Copyright © 2024 vBulletin Solutions, Inc. All rights reserved.