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No offense to you Dirk but I'm a younger guy from the States. I had no problem finding women there who would fuck me bareback with no BBBJ (or a really lousy one) all the while insisting that we turn off the lights. Then they keep you up all night snoring and the next morning want to talk about how great it is that they now "have a boyfriend". Isn't that EXACTLY the kind of bullshit that we came here to escape? In my opinion you'd do better hitting an apartment.
Thanks for the report Dirk,
I enjoy reading about your bar stool conquests. I think you are aware that there are many younger mongers on this board that are knee deep in free pussy. We know it's out there, and on occasion, we indulge, but from personal experience it is USUALLY more trouble than it is worth. But still a good option, thanks for pointing it out.
Bad
I have a few friends who indulged in bareback sex with their pickups. They fall into two categories: "Dads" and "patients."
I keep that baby covered up, even with regular girlfriends.
Pardon me for my Sunday morning irritation with on ongoing theme expressed by what appears to be a vast majority of mongers on this board. To wit, the idea that paying for pussy from pros is ALWAYS less expensive, and less trouble, than relationships with non pros. This canard appears to be subscribed to with an almost religious fervor, and while we all know that it is true at times, it is also often complete bullshit. I will commit the heresy of stating that many mongers are not exactly emotionally "fit" for non pro relationships, and thus their problems in those relationships serves as a self fulfilling prophecy. Nuff said on that. I expect to be cast into a pit of burning, rabid vermin for those comments.;)
Also, as regards the use of rubbers. I will dispense with all pretense of modesty and state that I have fucked a TON, let me repeat that, A TON, of non pros in my many years, and I would guess I have used rubbers on LESS than ten occasions. I have never had any version of the clap, no herpes, am not HIV+, and have enjoyed the priceless spontaneity that "cums" without the many irritants that are inherent in the use of condoms. Clearly it is a "numbers" issue as regards the risk of an STD or impregnating your lover, but it is my experience that the risk of STD "infection" is vastly overstated, and if one exercises prudence (Don't fucking cum in them) the risk of pregnancy is minimal as well.
So my advise to Dirk is: Fuck as many of 'em as you want, in any way you want, with or without rubbers if you want, and don't sweat the risk or the complications that can arise from non pro activity. Always be aware that there are some bad apples out there and act accordingly.
Suerte,
Dogg
[QUOTE=Doggboy]Pardon me for my Sunday morning irritation with on ongoing theme expressed by what appears to be a vast majority of mongers on this board. To wit, the idea that paying for pussy from pros is ALWAYS less expensive, and less trouble, than relationships with non pros. This canard appears to be subscribed to with an almost religious fervor, and while we all know that it is true at times, it is also often complete bullshit. I will commit the heresy of stating that many mongers are not exactly emotionally "fit" for non pro relationships, and thus their problems in those relationships serves as a self fulfilling prophecy. Nuff said on that. I expect to be cast into a pit of burning, rabid vermin for those comments.;)[/QUOTE]Who does this guy think He is, some kind of mental health professional?
I think your assesment is correct Dogg, me personally, I am not good with long term relationships, I get that claustrophobic feeling after a couple weeks, and it's all down hill from their. Maybe some guys are just genetically predisposed to look for non commitment, no hassles sex.
As far as one being cheaper than the other, well the truth is I can bang a beautiful girl for 100 US, get her number and then bang her any time I want for TLN for the same price. Where as I have to convince a non pro, then I have to sweet talk her, take her out on dates, buy her shit on her birthday. Have to deal with her asking me to meet her family. WTF? Plus I have to deal with her emmotional mood swings. And get an earfull everytime I tell her I am too busy to go out. I would say in the short term a "free" fuck, might be cheaper, but the minute the girl wants something long term, shit can go downhill pretty damn fast.
The most common infections from going bareback is Bacterial infections, show me ONE study that says otherwise please ? What a man does with his cock is NONE of my business. He is banging non pro chicks bareback, that is his choice, I am not a Public Service Anouncement. Also comparing Argentina to Africa is extremely misleading, The average country in Africa has an HIV prevelancy rate of 20-35% of the general population while Argentina has a rate of 0.70% and as a reference the USA has a 0.60% prevelancy rate. Get your facts straight next time. Bareback sex with a non pro is still risky, but then again who are we to judge ?
Just don't cum in em, because if you get them pregnant my guess is YOU'RE FUCKED. I would like to hear Hunt chime in here, maybe he knows what the legal ramifications of impregnating a girl in SA are, Can they sue you for child support in the US?
Bad
I have to differ with my fellow mongers on doing them bareback. I've been working with heatlhcare professionals for many years and have picked up a few bits of knowledge. First check out the UN health organizations AIDs study (not that I'm very trusting of the UN but they do good stats) while not as bad as Africa, South America (Brazil / Argentina / et al) has one of the highest rates of AIDs in the world. In today's environment, your doctor tells you that you have the clap or syphilis you get down on your knees and thank him that you got something that is curable. While unlike love, herpes is forever and guys Aid's will kill you! While it is a crap shoot if you get it or not, remember there is all ways a 7 or 11 at the end of a good roll. Me I keep little willy covered.
[QUOTE=Badboy13]I think your assesment is correct Dogg, me personally, I am not good with long term relationships, I get that claustrophobic feeling after a couple weeks, and it's all down hill from their.
I would say in the short term a " free " fuck, might be cheaper, but the minute the girl wants something long term, shit can go downhill pretty damn fast.
Bad[/QUOTE]I am exactly the same way, but I sure like fucking the hell out of them without a rubber til it starts going south. "Claustrophobic" is the right word for me also. Hey, my point is not to extoll the "virtues" of non pro relationships. My point is that the strict adherence to fucking pros because it's ALWAYS less trouble and less expensive is an illusion. There is plenty of info on another thread involving the purchasing of cars, and whatever else, to prove the point. If you want to be parted from your money, and maybe become temporarily insane, there are plenty of opportunities with pro and non pro alike. As always, the issue is not THEM, the issue is YOU. And I am just like everybody else in that regard.
[QUOTE=Badboy13]Just don't cum in em, because if you get them pregnant my guess is YOU'RE FUCKED. I would like to hear Hunt chime in here, maybe he knows what the legal ramifications of impregnating a girl in SA are, Can they sue you for child support in the US?
Bad[/QUOTE]Of course they can. They can also sue you for child support in Argentina. Or in both places. And pulling out isn't an effective means of birth control, either. Not to mention than when I am pounding away bareback on poon, the best feeling comes when I dump the load into her snatch, as opposed to on her stomach. Frankly, one of the ways a poor Argie girl could win the lottery would be to get herself impregnated by some American guy - the statutory rates for child support in most US jurisdictions will provide an Argentine woman with a comfortable living. Plus if she prevails (DNA tests are quick, easy, and irrefutable), the court will generally award her attorney fees, too. It's a no-lose proposition for a knocked-up Portena to chase the ex-boyfriend back to Sex Prison.
I don't think one is in danger of AIDS unless the bareback you participate in is taking it up the ass. There are, however, plenty of other things that you can get from even "good" girls. Not the least of which is herpes, which is permanent, painful [u]and[/u] asymptomatic in its carriers when it is most contagious.
But you guys are all big boys - so do what you want. Just don't come back here whining when you wake up one morning with a big sore on the end of your cock, or when the process server knocks on the door and serves you with a paternity suit.
Just for fun, I looked up child support guidelines on the web. California generally requires non-custodial fathers to pay 25% of their gross income to support a child. Here's the calculator:
[url]http://www.west.net/%7Eivguy/testcalc.html[/url]
[QUOTE=Doggboy]Pardon me for my Sunday morning irritation with on ongoing theme expressed by what appears to be a vast majority of mongers on this board. To wit, the idea that paying for pussy from pros is ALWAYS less expensive, and less trouble, than relationships with non pros. This canard appears to be subscribed to with an almost religious fervor, and while we all know that it is true at times, it is also often complete bullshit. I will commit the heresy of stating that many mongers are not exactly emotionally "fit" for non pro relationships, and thus their problems in those relationships serves as a self fulfilling prophecy. Nuff said on that. I expect to be cast into a pit of burning, rabid vermin for those comments.;)[/quote]Normally I would light into a guy spouting this kind of "New Age Dr. Phil nonsense" on a site that is about paying for pussy but since you are a jazz fan I'm going to give you a pass. Suffice it to say that some of us are emotionally "fit" to have different Argentine, Paraguayan, Brazilian, and Colombians sucking there dicks every other night, sharing a few laughs, and going along their way while others are more suited to have some old, fat-assed, money grubbing hag in house, barking orders at them with the family credit card in one hand and the vice attached to your nuts in the other. Now I'm going to retire myself from this thread because I don't believe that Dirk intended for it to become a forum about child support, AIDS, and finding your "lost inner child". (P. S. All of the lost children are at Doggyboys apartment lol. Sorry couldn't help myself.)
[QUOTE=Big Bob 7][QUOTE=Doggboy]Pardon me for my Sunday morning irritation with on ongoing theme expressed by what appears to be a vast majority of mongers on this board. To wit, the idea that paying for pussy from pros is ALWAYS less expensive, and less trouble, than relationships with non pros. This canard appears to be subscribed to with an almost religious fervor, and while we all know that it is true at times, it is also often complete bullshit. I will commit the heresy of stating that many mongers are not exactly emotionally "fit" for non pro relationships, and thus their problems in those relationships serves as a self fulfilling prophecy. Nuff said on that. I expect to be cast into a pit of burning, rabid vermin for those comments.;)[/quote]Normally I would light into a guy spouting this kind of "New Age Dr. Phil nonsense" on a site that is about paying for pussy but since you are a jazz fan I'm going to give you a pass. Suffice it to say that some of us are emotionally fit to have different Argentine, Paraguayan, Brazilian, and Colombians sucking there dicks every other night, sharing a few laughs, and going along their way while others are more suited to have some old, fat-assed, money grubbing hag in house, barking orders at them with the family credit card in one hand and the vice attached to your nuts in the other. Now I'm going to retire myself from this thread because I don't believe that Dirk intended for it to become a forum about child support, AIDS, and finding your "lost inner child". (P. S. All of the lost children are at Doggyboys apartment lol. Sorry couldn't help myself.[/QUOTE]Evening Big Bob,
#1-I think Dr. Phil is mostly full of shit. Most of the time there is a reason psychotherapists are on the tube-to make money.
#2-Per being "fit", I ain't separating myself from you or anybody else. And I am glad I am not "fit" to enjoy or tolerate # 3.
#3-I'm just as scared of that fat, nagging ***** as you are.
#4-My inner child ain't lost. I got him on a leash.
Suerte, and don't worry about going easy on me. I can breathe fire with the best of 'em.
Dogg
Don't confuse the two. Long term relationships are more difficult because there are more things to consider. Does she have simular interests, does she respect me enough not to spend all my hard earned money on herself. Short term sex is all about if she is attractive enough to spend a couple of hours getting all sweaty having some fun and is she worth the price. Picking one over the other does not make me unfit for a relationship. Or maybe it does and I just don't care. "Calling doctor Phil".
I love the fact I can wake up in the morning and fuck a 21 yr. old and then in the afternoon I can call two sluts and have a lesbian show later fuck both. It is call VARIETY. And I love it. If I had the "old ball and chain" I would not be able to have VARITEY.
A long time ago I realize that happiness to me is to be with a diffrent women everyday. I have never met a women that has made forget about all the other ones. IN Argentina I can have a diffrent fuck everyday. And I am not intrested in paying more than 100 peso per hour.
I can achieve all this in Buenos Aires.
Anyway I understand and respect those who want to have a relationship for the long haul. Good luck with that.
I was banging this girl from newport. I guess you could of called her a "regular". She obviously wanted more of a "relationship" with me.
One night we are going at it and she asked me if I had anything, if I did not she said it would be ok to fuck her without a rubber.
I didn't and that was the last night we were together.
I did not for a few reasons.
The biggest one was, if this chica wants to fuck me without a rubber after maybe 3-4 nights of fucking, how many other guys does she fuck sin condom?
I also had the thought of, "is this chica trying to get me to knock her up for the golden green card in the sky?"
Is she trying to get me to fall in love with a hooker?
It was too much drama and I cut it off. Plus the fact that she saw me take Angelina the Brazilian home the next day and got pissed.
I live in a major US city were HIV is a fact of life, its real. I have a friend that has been HIV positive for 8 years.
I am not worried about getting HIV from a BBBJ, clap and other fixable things are possible but doubtful.
I have been reading some things that there is supposed to be a saliva test out soon for HIV that gives results in a few minutes. It is expensive though I hear.