Dealing with Forum Traitors

Jackson,

It's unfortunate that one jerk can ruin everything for the rest of us. Better to keep him in the group and thoroughly ostracize him, though, rather than cut him off completely. How does the saying go, "Keep your enemies close"?

So, now we will have a private photo gallery within Argetina Private. I suppose it's the only solution. I do think that your requirement of continuously posting photos in order to remain within the inner sanctum is a tad unreasonable. There are some people who don't believe in taking, or posting, pictures as a matter of principle. And then there are many guys who just visit BA occasionally, and do post photos, who would quickly lose their qualification.

It will become very incestuous, very quickly.

Guillermo

Hi Jackson,

I am only an occasional visitor to BA, but I find the tips in the forums very usefull and have been lucky enough to have had good guidance from fellow mongerers during my visits.

This traitor has made an offense against us all and has broken our trust, thus should be exposed and banished. If he feels that pictures were not appropriate on this site, he should simply state it and voice his opinions. The pictures are always taken in consent from the chicas and wether or not they know that their picture is on the net, they at least suspect it, so it should not come to them as a surprise.

So, expose and exile is my vote.

Frenchy Guy

As a general rule, the [I]sine qua non[/i] for successful mongering worldwide is the willingness and ability to deceive. Both the men and women who are involved in mongering are usually deceiving people who are meaningful in their lives -- spouses, girlfriends, family, business associates, friends -- on a constant, regular basis.

Just based on that alone, I wouldn't get too bent out of shape to find that some guys who use this forum are willing to "betray" us -- guys they probably barely even know -- in order to get a slight advantage with some chica or other.

When you add to that general observation the fact that many guys who monger are actually total fucking losers -- guys who really [b]cannot[/b] make it with normal chicks, or guys who are searching for some sort of emotional gratification here -- you've got a clear recipe for this so-called "betrayal."

Just "out" whoever it is...ban that particular board name...move on...and expect that it will happen again...and again...and again...and again.

SL.

P. S. As an aside, I've seen about half-dozen guys go down over the years -- letters to their wives, phone calls to work, whatever -- and in each and every case, the culprit was [u]not[/u] some deranged chica, it was always some fellow monger who somehow thought that some chica was actually his girlfriend or whatever, or who got jealous of a fellow monger's success, or something along those lines.

The chicas need to be watched carefully, for sure. But so do your fellow mongers. Even more so, in my opinion.

Wow,

I'd really like some feedback on StrayLight's observations. I have not once met a "Loser" monger. I have in fact met many educated, insightful, articulate, interesting people who partake in the hobby.

I have never heard of a monger outing another monger, not regarding chicas anyway, it usually has to do with petty business dealings that bad blood starts.

Having only mongered the last 3 years I resent these stereotypes that are presented and wonder if others share these opinions. And just out of curiosity StrayLight, which one of these qualifications do you meet?

Lunico.

[QUOTE=StrayLight]

When you add to that general observation the fact that many guys who monger are actually total fucking losers.

P. S. As an aside, I've seen about half-dozen guys go down over the years. It was always some fellow monger who somehow thought that some chica was actually his girlfriend or whatever, or who got jealous of a fellow monger's success, or something along those lines. [/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=Lunico]Wow,

I'd really like some feedback on StrayLight's observations. I have not once met a "Loser" monger. I have in fact met many educated, insightful, articulate, interesting people who partake in the hobby.

I have never heard of a monger outing another monger, not regarding chicas anyway, it usually has to do with petty business dealings that bad blood starts.

Having only mongered the last 3 years I resent these stereotypes that are presented and wonder if others share these opinions. And just out of curiosity StrayLight, which one of these qualifications do you meet?

Lunico.[/QUOTE]I did not say that [u]all[/u] guys who monger are losers, now did I, Lunio? What did I [i]actually[/i] say? Does saying something about "many" people really qualify as a "stereotype"?

And doesn't the fact that Jackson found it necessary to even [i]start[/i] this thread say something about a certain subset of mongers?

You have been mongering for three years, Lunio; I fucked my first hooker in July, 1972 in the little Army town of Lawton, Oklahoma -- were you even alive then? -- and have been mongering on and off ever since. Now please, Mr. 3-year man, [i]do[/i] tell me about all of [i]your[/i] mongering wisdom.

And for future reference, as I told another young hothead on this board, you would do well to remember as you go through life that it's "ready-aim-fire", not "ready-fire-aim".

SL

I've definitely met some real loser mongers down here, but more classy, educated-type guys than losers, by a ratio of maybe 3 to 1. Never heard of one monger outing another but then I ain't married.

[QUOTE=Dickhead]I've definitely met some real loser mongers down here, but more classy, educated-type guys than losers, by a ratio of maybe 3 to 1.[/QUOTE]Being a "classy, educated-type" has nothing to do with whether or not a guy turns out to be a loser when chicas, hormones, and money are involved and things aren't going quite the way he'd like them to go.

[QUOTE]Never heard of one monger outing another but then I ain't married.[/QUOTE]And I'm guessing you weren't mongering in Washington DC circa 2000 - 2001. There was a minor epidemic of it.

SL

StrayLight,

Were those DC types fucking on 14th street or cerca the triangle? You think they ever give their whoares a little whuppin' with their suspenders?;)

[QUOTE=Doggboy]Were those DC types fucking on 14th street.[/QUOTE]Dude...the one time I ever came even remotely close to thinking I could get killed doing this shit was on 14th Street in Washington DC in 1988.

I picked up a streetwalker at the corner of 14th and K. Kind of a plain looking, slightly heavy, bleached blond white girl.

She was inordinately anxious about whether or not I was a cop. I mean, she was extreme about it, and my own inner voice started hinting to me that there was some bad shit here and perhaps I shouldn't go with it. But just as I was on the verge of kicking her out of the car, she signalled to start driving.

I forget how the exact wording of the agreement went, but she told me that the price was $50, which I took to mean getting laid.

We drove to some funky neighborhood in the northeast part of town and parked. She led me into a row house, in which half a dozen black men and women were milling around the living room. (**[b]BIG[/b]** black men, I might add.) She walked me through the living room, into the dining room.

The dining room had been partitioned into three 'stalls' by pieces of plywood. Each 'stall' had a mattress on the floor, and a sheet that pulled across the front to afford some minimal degree of privacy.

We entered our 'stall' and sat on the mattress. I gave her the $50, at which point she promptly informed me that for $50 I was not going to get laid. She said that getting laid would be $100 or $150. Something like that.

Your mind races and reels at moments like that. You simply want to get out alive.

If you ever saw the Alfred Hitchcock movie, "The Birds," wherein at the end of the movie the landscape is covered with birds, and the people [I]very, very slowly[/i] and [I]very, very calmly[/i] tiptoe out of the house to the car...

...well, that was me.

I [I]very, very slowly[/i] stood up...stepped past her...and [I]very, very calmly[/i] walked back through the living room and out the front door, at which point I [I]very, very calmly[/i] got in my car and drove away.

I drove by 14th and K every night for the next few weeks, hoping to spot her and run her ass over, but I never saw her again.

SL

Well, we are WAY off the topic here, but those inner city stories can be interesting. Me and a college buddy of mine hit the Quarter in New Orleans in 1971(0?) the night before heading up the road to see Bert Jones and LSU give my Auburn Tigers their only loss of the year. We got boozed up, and eventually bundled up in a cab with two black chicks who had the cab driver birddogging for 'em. My buddy and I were so trashed we did not know where we were going (first time in the Crescent City) We ended up in a very dark part of town about 2 in the am. The girls walked us in to a rowhouse where a menacing black guy sat at the bottom of the stairs behind a little desk. On the desk was a money drawer and a pearl handled revolver. We both paid $20 and were led up the stairs where there was a hallway with "rooms" partitioned off with sheets strung up from the ceiling. Each "room" had a squeaky bed, a small dresser and an alarm clock. My buddy went in the first room and me and my whoare went in the last. About 5 minutes into it I busted a nut and at the very same time I heard my buddy screaming down the hall. I jumped up and got out in the hall to see him in his underwear heading down the stairs. I followed and from the second floor saw the pearl handled revolver being leveled at my buddy and a very calm black dude saying, "Calm down and shut up". Which he did. The chick had stolen his wallet out of his pants and was gone down the street. So, he got dressed and we somehow found our way back to the hotel with about one dollar between us upon arriving. Begged money the next day to get to Baton Rouge where we ran into friends and finally home to the plains safe and sound Sunday.

StrayLight,

You're the first asshole I've encountered in my 3 years of mongering.

Your wrote: "Does saying something about "many" people really qualify as a "stereotype"?

Yeah, it sure does.

You wrote: "You have been mongering for three years, Lunio (blah blah blah) Now please, Mr. 3-year man, do tell me about all of your mongering wisdom".

If you must know I've rendezvoused with hookers in 5 countries on and off over the last 20 years. Now I travel exclusively for tryst' in South America.

You wrote: "And for future reference, as I told another young hothead on this board, you would do well to remember as you go through life that it's "ready-aim-fire", not "ready-fire-aim".

Yeah, I thought I'd read your opinion already, and I was asking for others. Thanks for the prompt response though, it quickly cleared up the fact that you are indeed an asshole.

Lunico

Well gentlemen, this is my first post on the forums, and also my first trip to BA. I was actually reading through the forums after a wonderful session, all filled with smug contentment and was a little brought down by both the unfortunate subject in this thread and a little of the bashing that was going on. We all seem to have similar ideas and goals, so it's unfortunate that people have to be so antagonistic toward one another.

Anyway, as I said, I'm new to the forum, and BA as well, but I've been mongering around the world for over a decade. The concept of keeping quiet about mongering, except among other mongerers, should be so self-evident that I can't believe someone would be foolish enough to actually "tattle" to anyone, whether it be someone's wife or one of the ladies who have been mongered (so to speak)

As others have stated, it is pretty simple to reset an IP address, or to spoof it using one of the semi-hacker sites that make this an easy thing. I'm not sure how you would go about really making a permanent ban stick, but seems to me that he should definitely be outed to us and banned for principle, even if it won't necessarily stick. Maybe if he finds a way back in, he'll think twice about doing such a heinous act after hearing what everyone thinks about his action.

[QUOTE=El Queso] seems to me that he should definitely be outed to us and banned for principle, even if it won't necessarily stick. Maybe if he finds a way back in, he'll think twice about doing such a heinous act after hearing what everyone thinks about his action.[/QUOTE]I hate to keep saying this, but notifying someone that there has been a (possibly nude) picture of them posted on a public Internet site (which I remind you again has no specificaly stated "rule" prohibiting them from doing that) hardly qualifies as any more of a "heinous act" then posting the photo without permission was in the first place.

If those of you who for some reason get a kick out of giant closeups of anonymous pussies and assholes want to keep doing that I suppose it's harmless enough, but if you think posting pictures that include someones face without their knowledge is OK, why don't you put your own face in the picture as well? Or maybe let her take some of you to post on some public site, along with comments about your proclivities, the size of your dick, and whether she "would repeat"

I agree with Lunico that "I have in fact met many educated, insightful, articulate, interesting people who partake in the hobby." but StrayLight is not off base when he says that "many guys who monger are actually total fucking losers". Just read some of the pathetic posts right on this board, especially in recent months, and it's hard to argue with the guy!

My two cents!

David

[QUOTE=Lunico]StrayLight,

You're the first asshole I've encountered in my 3 years of mongering.[/QUOTE]Save it, bub. Flattery will get you nowhere with me. LOL!

SL

[QUOTE=Capt Dave]

I agree with Lunico that "I have in fact met many educated, insightful, articulate, interesting people who partake in the hobby." but StrayLight is not off base when he says that "many guys who monger are actually total fucking losers". Just read some of the pathetic posts right on this board, especially in recent months, and it's hard to argue with the guy! [/QUOTE]Gotta agree wholeheartedly with what Dave, Lunico, and even DH said on this subject. I've made some good friends, and met some interesting, well-traveled and articulate guys, amongst the monger set. I've also run across a smaller number that I'd never care to meet again. I've also met a few total fucking degenerates who made my skin crawl.

I never pretend that "we're all brothers here." But this board exists solely for the exchange of information and the related entertainment value, not as a fraternity or a campfire around which we all joing hands and sing "Kumbayah."