Richard T makes a good point
My girlfriend tells me I have to spank her when she is bad and she doesn't mean a little mamby pamby spanking. My buddies wife says he needs to grab her and shake her when she's out of line. The guys down there take ZERO shit from women. It's hard for us raised in this female dominated society here to understand but the WILL NOT RESPECT you if you let them get away with shit. They will not think your a nice guy for being tolerant they will think your a pussy and act acordingly.
Be strong, be decisive, take no shit at all and they will LOVE to serve you. They spent their whole childhood watching their pops fucking rule the house and it's what they want.