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Chat amigas -
Curious to know if any of you have met Argentine ladies by e-mail/chat prior to heading down to BA. A couple of questions:
How have you managed to juggle all of them on your visits down to BA?
What have been your best sites for meeting these ladies?
Do you recommend this technique at all or do you find it better dealing with pros?
I have starting chatting with some girls I've met on the Clarin web site and they seem entirely too friendly. Do you think they are simply looking for a prince from the US to rescue them or are portenas just friendly? What do you think they are really after in a virtual amigo?
Any help on these questions would be greatly appreciated.
DfB
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Dick for Brains,
Yes. I've met non-pro girls online before heading down there. The best sites I've met girls on have been [url]www.amigos.com[/url] and [url]www.cybercupidos.com [/url] Unfortunately, there aren't as many hot girls for Argentina than other Latin American countries like Colombia.
Also if you don't want to invest any money try MSN's free page.
[url]http://members.msn.com/find.msnw?rr=1125724641[/url]
Just type in your parameters that you are looking for.
The question you have to ask yourself is what is it that YOU are looking for. Everyone including the girl is looking for something out of the relationship. Some are just looking for penpals, some are looking for love and some are looking for money. I've never came across any girls that asked me for money. Most that I've chatted with have been really genuine. The ones from Argentina especially. The ones from Colombia throw their phone numbers out there immediately and it's clear they are looking for a gringo boyfriend/fiance/husband (all of the above).
I stopped meeting these girls in BA because I never had enough time for them but I'll probably meet up more with them now that I'll be living down there soon. The best thing is to be upfront and honest with them. If you aren't looking for anything serious just tell them. Most of them prefer honesty than BS.
Be careful though. If you are only going down for a few days the pros are easier. You may think you're not paying but you WILL pay with dinners, gifts, and most importantly valuable time trying to get into their pants. Also, be careful as sometimes the girls will just stop by your apartment or hotel and you could be in a bad situation with another girl. That's happened to me before and it's NOT fun.
Just have fun. It will become clear after a while what they are looking for. Most of these girls have Yahoo or MSN messenger and have access to cameras at internet cafes so you can chat with them and get to know them. Good luck!
Saint
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Saint,
You are correct in regards meeting these ladies over the
Internet. I have not had any experience with ladies from
Argentina; however, based on my own personal experience
be careful with ladies from COLOMBIA, all they want is getting
out of the country, once they are in the US they will try to
get you for everything. My experience was even worse, in order
to get this lady out of COLOMBIA, married her and believe me
after she got her permanent residence ... ADIOS ! and not only
that but she wanted alimony and part of my pension. I had to
hired the best attorney in the area at US$ 450.00 an hour, and
he finally settled for 6 months and alimony and a 528i BMW.
Therefore, be careful ... The most expensive "pussy" ever,
it cost me around over US$100K
Now days, do not mind telling the story, but be aware of those ladies from COLOMBIA, all they want is getting out of the country.
Its better to hired a pro ...
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Saint,
Thanks for your very useful comments.
DfB
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Alboroto is 100% correct. Probably not all of the Colombian girls are like that but I can tell you with certainty that those girls are DESPERATE to leave their country. The Argentinas and Brasileras i have found aren't like that. For the most part, most girls from Brasil and Argentina love their country. They love going to the beach and just enjoying life.
Colombianas have to deal with rampant crime and other fears. Like I said, I've received the vast majority of emails from girls from Colombia. Almost all of them will throw out their phone number immediately. Even this girl I met in the USA from cybercupidos.com from Colombia had already been married and divorced two times and she has been here less than 2 years! She has to find another one since she never was married long enough to legally stay in the USA.
I'm not saying it's not impossible to find a nice girl. I met a wonderful non-pro very intelligent, beautiful girl from Mexico that I dated for about 4 months. But remember something one of the girls in BA told me on one of my previous trips. "A girlfriend is ALWAYS cheaper than a wife".
Good luck,
Saint
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I have met a very nice girl from Lima. She is an accountant and 33 years old. We have been cyber chatting and telephone for about a month. I think her family owns property and all her siblings seem to have pretty good jobs. I think she has a pretty good life in Peru just wants to get married. Any opinions ? I am 42 and know better than try to hook up permanently with a hot 22 year old :)
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Chicagoboy,
The "M" word should never come into play until you've been dating a girl in a serious relatonship and you've spent significant amounts of time together. Would you go off and marry an American girl you only chatted with a few times on the internet and a few emails?? No way. Not sure why guys lose their focus when it comes to this.
I went to Lima recently for two weeks. It was really amazing to see that the upper crust and upper middle class girls almost refuse to date guys from Peru. The doctor that I met was in her upper 30's and from a very wealthy family. Her friend was in the same age range. Her family also owned tons of businesses and she was affluent. She also refused to settle down with a guy from Peru. They are hoping to settle down with an American, European or even guy from Brazil.
ChicagoBoy23, you shouldn't even be thinking of marriage or anything serious at this point. Just go down there and meet her and see her situation there. I met this amiga's family and I about shit when I walked into their house. I'm talking big mansion. These girls just want to find a nice, intelligent guy to settle down with. The last thing they need is money.
I've been dating a girl on and off for the past 1.6 years. I've flown her to my house in the USA about 6 times now for stays up to 5 weeks at a time. I've flown down to visit her over 5 times. This is the only way you can see if you're compatible. Good luck.
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Saint,
There is no question about it, that not all the Colombian
ladies are the same. Here is an example the guy who introduced
me to this lady, he is a very lucky guy: He married this lady from
Barranquilla, Colombia even brought her into the US with a very
young girl of 8 years old. And, he has been married for about
three years, they still married and they just bought a house.
However, three of his friends included myself did not have
the same luck.
I was reading on the Costa Rica Forum, about this monger who
met this colombian lady and all she wants is US$$$ and telling
him all kinds of lies, those included that her Mom she is been
sick and therefore needs US$$$.
My experience had thought me to just be "careful" and when
you see a lady that all she asked is US$$$, best thing to do
is leave her ... in the other hand, you do not fall into this kind
of US$$$ needed if you hired a pro: In which case, all you do
is pay, take care of business and A D I O S !
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Chicagoboy,
Please, Please, Please ... read my message. Even thought
they claim have money in their native country, believe me
they all want to come to the US.
One more point, try to find out the reason why they do not
want to married a native guy. I do have my own personal
opinion based on my experiences; however, that's your
"home work" and let us know.
Also, do not know which State you live; however, if you
live in the State of California you are to be "clean", since
its a community property and they will try to take your
money and run.
Just be careful ...
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Pahllus Maximus was in the Madahos house last night running the ladies amok. It was a history in the making. Pallus is a cool guy with...hmm... unique taste and expectation in mujere entertainments LOL.
Jackson was also in the same house and the emperor changed all of his plan so that mongering can continue for two more days.
I look forward to uploading some interesting photos ùpon my return to the states.
Cali
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What kind of mongering is in this area? Looking at property in this area.
Thanks
La Llave is a little village with only a gas station, a few small stores, etc. However, a larger town of Monte Coman is about 10 minutes away, and there is San Rafael about 25 minutes by car. San Rafael is a small city (120,000 people), but quite complete -- with building supply centers, restaurants etc.
This came from the real estate agent
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Help. Did I make a mistake and entered ¨Latin matchmaking.com"? is this the Colombian girls analysis site?
Hey guys, keep the area properly attended and go for discussions to the correct site. Thanks, wastes lots of time searching for the mongering info.
Guille
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Many opinions there are on this issue.
Common sense dictates that a woman with a child is likely to be
more stable, think things through more thoroughly before leaving you, because she has someone else´s future to think about.
2055
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Calicula919
Thanks for the HUD. That blonde Brazillian bombshell is undoubtedly the cause of your delayed return to the USA - Underserviced Sexual Amigos. Cali is also a cool guy, expert in the local fillies. Today was diappointing. Took a duo, they crapped on all the time, were clinical etc. I should have trusted my judgment to walk out half way and throw 50AR to them. What a wasted pop. 80AR down the drain. Had a healf hearted session with EE titty brunette, not feeling inspired right now. Maybe it is too many girls.
I asked a group of schoolgirls for directions - they MOBBED me, giggling, wanting to know about the USA etc. Very friendly and sweet, one or two good English and proud to show it off and how smart they were to their friends. I got ideas in my head about this, because it would be all too easy for one thing to lead to another. A freebie schoolgirl virgin wanting to lose it to a Gringo. Anyone know the age of consent down here ? This may break several regulations established by WSG, but they were delightful and sweet, which I think plays a big role in chemistry. Heh heh...
Hopefully Cali, dh and Jackson can rendezvous for a night of mongering. Venus is/was in the face of the sun, and so the Emperor Cali should be in Venus, or whatever her name was - thats right - Kelly was it.
Kelly for Cali. Cute.
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Thanks for the advice and warnings. I will try and keep my decision making in my big head not my small one. I am thinking maybe a pre-nupt is the answer. I agree that dating for an extended period of time makes sense.