Picking up non-pros: It's easy and not that complicated.
I banged 3 girls (excluding pros) hooked up with 2 more, and have a date tonight. This is in 2 weeks.
Here's what I did:
1) Spanish - made it through 1 unit and 3/4 of unit 2 of Rosetta Stone. BAD spanish, but I speak.
2) I approached about 20 girls while I was here.
3) I had a phone, I got #'s. In one case I pulled a girl from a bar, the rest were dates / meetups.
4) I was prepared to stay up late. My best lay occured at 9:30 the next morning, after a night of drinking.
5) DRESS - I DRESS LIKE A ROCK STAR / MOVIE STAR. THINK JOHNNY DEPP. I DO IT BIG. IT MAKES A BIG DIFFERENCE TO STAND OUT FROM THE BUSINESS TOURISTS AND THE GRUBBY LOCALS.
I wound up dating a girl who could easily be a dancer at Black. 9.99999, 22 years old, hotter than almost any girl I've dated before.
Doing the pro thing is ok for fun once in a while, but it can be a bit much. Sure, if you are 60 and fat and bald (as I plan to be some day) then maybe the math changes, but if you have a bit of game left, go out and give it a shot.
Have you ever been to BA?
[QUOTE=DavidNelson]I banged 3 girls (excluding pros) hooked up with 2 more, and have a date tonight. This is in 2 weeks.
Here's what I did:
1) Spanish - made it through 1 unit and 3/4 of unit 2 of Rosetta Stone. BAD spanish, but I speak.
2) I approached about 20 girls while I was here.
3) I had a phone, I got #'s. In one case I pulled a girl from a bar, the rest were dates / meetups.
4) I was prepared to stay up late. My best lay occured at 9:30 the next morning, after a night of drinking.
5) DRESS - I DRESS LIKE A ROCK STAR / MOVIE STAR. THINK JOHNNY DEPP. I DO IT BIG. IT MAKES A BIG DIFFERENCE TO STAND OUT FROM THE BUSINESS TOURISTS AND THE GRUBBY LOCALS.
I wound up dating a girl who could easily be a dancer at Black. 9.99999, 22 years old, hotter than almost any girl I've dated before.
Doing the pro thing is ok for fun once in a while, but it can be a bit much. Sure, if you are 60 and fat and bald (as I plan to be some day) then maybe the math changes, but if you have a bit of game left, go out and give it a shot.[/QUOTE]Well my little Johnny Depp wannabe, did you think we were going to believe this fantasy of yours?
Never married? No children? Lucky you!
[QUOTE=Travlnman]There was once a handsome prince who was seeing a beautiful princess. One day he asked her to marry him. She said, "No". So he drank beer, went out with his buddies, fucked many girls, left the toilet seat up, farted whenever he wanted, and lived happily ever after.[/QUOTE]The point is well made and very true. The women I would have married thought they had better choices, but now I'm happier than I've ever been, other than during the early stages of a new love affair. Furthermore, many if not most married men, especially those approaching 50, tell me I'm "lucky" or "smart" to have stayed single and that they wish they'd done the same. A significant number of married men tell me they've had or are having sex with prostitutes while married. Prostitutes tell me 75-90 per cent of their customers are married men. I still have warm, fuzzy feelings about fatherhood, but men who've had children have often told me things like "lucky you" when I tell them I'm childless, including many who were never divorced. Divorced fathers have told me it's downright foolish to have a child with today's laws, at least in the USA, and as best I've been able to determine after making a few inquiries, it's little or no better anywhere else unless you move to an Islamic country.
I thought it was the worst post possible
I check here from time to time specifically for this thread that gets virtually no play. The BenStuffer post made me wince - wow; pretty base even for mongers. And I am no angel, baby.
But, I would like to achieve a greater balance than the status quo here. I doubt it is possible to get "normal" posts with monger posts. And, I am grateful for the intel. But damn. The fixation with specific acts and places and behavior! I think most of the fun is the unpredictably of it all.
And, yes, that often means non pro chicas for me.
I just got back from a two month trip to the DR and the factor like behavior of the service providers was vomit provoking if you have to see it day and night. (it is something you don't even take into consideration when you are 3 - or 6 days and fly out)
And before you jump all over my ass for posting in support of non-pro, "fair and square" boy and girl stuff. Understand that I respect the 99% mission of this board and the hobbyists who play the game. There is great info and contacts here. I do not judge negatively - AT ALL! I just would like more of a balance. But that would be in MY perfect world.
PS and who the hell is David Nelson?
Deep sea and shooting into a barrel. Have it all.
[QUOTE=Iam Zon; 410546]
And before you jump all over my ass for posting in support of non-pro, "fair and square" boy and girl stuff. Understand that I respect the 99% mission of this board and the hobbyists who play the game. There is great info and contacts here. I do not judge negatively. AT ALL! I just would like more of a balance. But that would be in MY perfect world.
[/QUOTE]First post here so forgive me if I overstep some boundary or protocol. I dig both sides of this conversation. My mongering has been elsewhere (Brazil, Peru and the US of A, so how much my experience applies to Buenos Aries, I cannot say.
That caveated, I like the chance to have it all, and every Latin American city I have been to has afforded me that opportunity. When I go on a trip, like the one bringing me to B. A. For the first time in November, I leave myself open to the possibilities of a Non-Pro hook up while planning to P2P a few times as well. It's really comforting to know that no matter what happens, I get to bed someone new in a place I've never been to before. Non-mongers who aren't studs don't have that assurance, and that is why I spend to bend. Plus, the older I get (45, the less willing I am to put up with uninteresting dates for the possibility of sex. Check please, if you know what I mean.
That being said, having sex with a woman who wants to be there (No, pulling a too-drunk-to-remember-fucking does not count, beats most P2P experiences without a doubt. I really do hope for it when I enter any situation where there are interesting / attractive women and the possibility of conversation, and it is just easier for someone of my limitations in Latin America.
The last non-pro pull I had came from the WSM section of CL in Lima. Imagine that.32, web designer, way too attractive / young for me, great English, better fuck-me boots. I didn't stay up late for it. I just connected, talked, and it went from there. Rare experience, yes, but not so rare.
Clearly I don't know B. A, but I can't wait to learn. I have had good luck getting together with mongers before, so am hoping to cross paths with one or a few of you all while I prowl the Ciudad de Tango.
Thanks for reading.
My Experience with Non-Pro / Semi- Pro Chicas
About two months before arriving in BsAS, I adveritised in social website for a female company during my stay in BsAs. (I do not like to mention the name of the website in this forum). I am 50+ years old and I like a little older women around 40s. Three women replied which I considered serious. Three morenas and a lone white woman. From experience I knew that it is better to let them know about my ethinicity right from the beginning. Basically I told them that I am not a white man and told them about my age. The white woman dropped out. Other two morenas want to know more about me. One of them was 36 years old, stunningly beautiful as far as I could make out from the picture; the other was 49 years old, quite beautiful as well. I started talking frankly with both these women. From my limited correspondances, I found that the younger one is a little reserve. The older one is kind of free in spirit and the way she was treating me as if I she knew me for a long time. So I decided to go with the older one. Another reason was that she is in my league as far as the age goes. I let the other one know that I found someone else as my companion. As expected, I never heard from her again.
The woman told me that she works full time, has a 10 year old kid. She can come to see me only after 7pm. It was okay with me. Casually, I asked her how much she would charge me for her time. Boy! She was furious! She told in reply (all in block letters) ; she is not a prostitute and if I am looking for one, there are lots of them in BsAs. I apologized and made up a story why I asked that. Anyway, I wanted to meet her at least once. One suggestion I gave to her was: if she could take half day off for the week and I am willing to compensate her handsomely. She wanted to meet me first then she will decide. She is a brazilian; born in Bahia, Salvador; was married to an Argentine, now divorced.
After I arrived in BsAs on a Saturday, I called her and setup a meeting time at 7pm. She showed up in my apartment right on time. She greeted me as if she was reuniting with an old friend. She looks like around 40 years old and better looking than her picture. I took a little gift bag for her. She was very pleased to recieve that. I was ready for her with drinks and snacks. To my surprise she does not drink or smoke and she is a very healthy woman. We went out for supper and afterwards to a club. About 1 am came back to my apartment. I was not sure whather she wanted sex or not. So I decided to let her make the first move; and she did after some music and dance in the apt. It is hard to describe her actions in bed. Simply, fantastic! She was tiger in bed, hungry for some meat! It went on for seven nights straight and two more nights one week later. Of course, I compensated her handsomely!
I do not have any clue even today whether she is a pro or semi-pro or an amateur. Frankly, I really don't care.
Great idea and it works well
[QUOTE=Aurab64; 413574]About two months before arriving in BsAS, I adveritised in social website for a female company during my stay in BsAs. (I do not like to mention the name of the website in this forum. I am 50+ years old and I like a little older women around 40s. Three women replied which I considered serious. Three morenas and a lone white woman. From experience I knew that it is better to let them know about my ethinicity right from the beginning. Basically I told them that I am not a white man and told them about my age. The white woman dropped out. Other two morenas want to know more about me. One of them was 36 years old, stunningly beautiful as far as I could make out from the picture; the other was 49 years old, quite beautiful as well. I started talking frankly with both these women. From my limited correspondances, I found that the younger one is a little reserve. The older one is kind of free in spirit and the way she was treating me as if I she knew me for a long time. So I decided to go with the older one. Another reason was that she is in my league as far as the age goes. I let the other one know that I found someone else as my companion. As expected, I never heard from her again.
The woman told me that she works full time, has a 10 year old kid. She can come to see me only after 7pm. It was okay with me. Casually, I asked her how much she would charge me for her time. Boy! She was furious! She told in reply (all in block letters) ; she is not a prostitute and if I am looking for one, there are lots of them in BsAs. I apologized and made up a story why I asked that. Anyway, I wanted to meet her at least once. One suggestion I gave to her was: if she could take half day off for the week and I am willing to compensate her handsomely. She wanted to meet me first then she will decide. She is a brazilian; born in Bahia, Salvador; was married to an Argentine, now divorced.
After I arrived in BsAs on a Saturday, I called her and setup a meeting time at 7pm. She showed up in my apartment right on time. She greeted me as if she was reuniting with an old friend. She looks like around 40 years old and better looking than her picture. I took a little gift bag for her. She was very pleased to recieve that. I was ready for her with drinks and snacks. To my surprise she does not drink or smoke and she is a very healthy woman. We went out for supper and afterwards to a club. About 1 am came back to my apartment. I was not sure whather she wanted sex or not. So I decided to let her make the first move; and she did after some music and dance in the apt. It is hard to describe her actions in bed. Simply, fantastic! She was tiger in bed, hungry for some meat! It went on for seven nights straight and two more nights one week later. Of course, I compensated her handsomely!
I do not have any clue even today whether she is a pro or semi-pro or an amateur. Frankly, I really don't care. [/QUOTE]Aruba,
Well done I have used this method in Cartagena, Colombia and Dominican Republic,
In Thailand it was not necessary since I have been there too many times, but will use when I come to BA for the first time in 2012 for my 50th birthday.
I want to see some of the country and what better way with a nice age appropiate native companion.
Like you I will let them know I am a black American male, and send a photo so there will be no surprises.
I'm looking for retirement countries for myself and have had excellent results in seeing the city and country as you have described.
I know other men were doing this, and it's good to see it worked out for you.
My spanish lessons are improving and with a month in Dominican in 2011 before my BA trip, I'm sure my Vacation will be just as enjoyable as yours
Well done.
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