In BA - Chica protocol

Hello...

I'm here in BA until Sept 25th, been here for a week, and would need some tips on local chica protocol. I'm not an expert monger, just taking my first steps, and this is my first time in SA.

Well, my issue is that I contacted a girl from this forum, exchanged emails, then Whatsapp messages, arranged a date... Things looked all set up for a nice night ... But the girl asked for my real name and hotel room number. I have no problem giving my room number, but my real name? I got a little scared and just tell her to cancel. Is this the usual on outcalls? Now I'm worried that she has my personal phone number too. Am I being paranoid? I'm married and have a job to take care of, so is this normal?

Thanks for your guidance!

Ozymagic.

[QUOTE=Ozymagic;447795]Hello...

I'm here in BA until Sept 25th, been here for a week, and would need some tips on local chica protocol. I'm not an expert monger, just taking my first steps, and this is my first time in SA.

Well, my issue is that I contacted a girl from this forum, exchanged emails, then Whatsapp messages, arranged a date... Things looked all set up for a nice night ... But the girl asked for my real name and hotel room number. I have no problem giving my room number, but my real name? I got a little scared and just tell her to cancel. Is this the usual on outcalls? Now I'm worried that she has my personal phone number too. Am I being paranoid? I'm married and have a job to take care of, so is this normal?

Thanks for your guidance!

Ozymagic.[/QUOTE]She asked for your name so she could tell the front desk at your hotel that she was visiting you, also for her own safety. There's nothing to fear.

[QUOTE=Ozymagic;447795]Hello...

I'm here in BA until Sept 25th, been here for a week, and would need some tips on local chica protocol. I'm not an expert monger, just taking my first steps, and this is my first time in SA.

Well, my issue is that I contacted a girl from this forum, exchanged emails, then Whatsapp messages, arranged a date... Things looked all set up for a nice night ... But the girl asked for my real name and hotel room number. I have no problem giving my room number, but my real name? I got a little scared and just tell her to cancel. Is this the usual on outcalls? Now I'm worried that she has my personal phone number too. Am I being paranoid? I'm married and have a job to take care of, so is this normal?

Thanks for your guidance!

Ozymagic.[/QUOTE]Hello Ozymagic.

Let me give you my opinion about your concern.

As a working girl, When a client wants my services at his hotel . I asked his full name and number of room because hotel staff requires that iformation. I have been in the most luxury hotels in BA and all of them ask me for the clients info.

If I do not give the hotels staff the complete information , they would not let me in .. It is for your security. That is all , but you have to be careful just do that with Independent women ;).

Hope my opinion helps you ;).

Bisou.

Marie Paule.

Thanks for your replies Marie and PickCherry.

Yes, it is clear that hotels and girls need to take some safety measures. What I have done in the past is to give my room number, when the girls arrives at the hotel she calls me, I go down to the lobby to meet her, and then have a drink or go straight to the room... Had no problem with that in my few...hmmm.. Meetings.

Sadly this time she insisted on my full name, so I got a little scared... Well... Will try again!

All the best.

Oz.

[QUOTE=Ozymagic;447798]Thanks for your replies Marie and PickCherry.

Yes, it is clear that hotels and girls need to take some safety measures. What I have done in the past is to give my room number, when the girls arrives at the hotel she calls me, I go down to the lobby to meet her, and then have a drink or go straight to the room... Had no problem with that in my few...hmmm.. Meetings.

Sadly this time she insisted on my full name, so I got a little scared... Well... Will try again!

All the best.

Oz.[/QUOTE]Hotel staff needs your full name for let the girl go to your room , and girl needs name and room num so she can call the hotel and confirm that u are really there , so she dont waste her time .... That the way all girls or smart girls doit ....sory my ingles not to good .. Saludos.

[QUOTE=Luchi;447799]Hotel staff needs your full name for let the girl go to your room , and girl needs name and room num so she can call the hotel and confirm that u are really there , so she dont waste her time .... That the way all girls or smart girls doit ....sory my ingles not to good .. Saludos.[/QUOTE]Sure it is the smart and safe way to do it... Understand that you must also confirm that the person is really at the hotel and it's not a time waster! Just got caught a little off guard with the request, that's it, and maybe I'm a little paranoid when outside the US also.

Your ingles is quite good actually!

Have a nice day!

Oz.

[QUOTE=Ozymagic;447795]But the girl asked for my real name and hotel room number. I have no problem giving my room number, but my real name? I got a little scared and just tell her to cancel. Is this the usual on outcalls? Now I'm worried that she has my personal phone number too. Am I being paranoid? I'm married and have a job to take care of, so is this normal?

Thanks for your guidance!

Ozymagic.[/QUOTE]I wouldn't do it. I wouldn't do it for two main reasons. First your concerns are not groundless as the story of Irina on the front page illustrates. There are scum bags in this business. There are also some very sweet chicks in the business. The problem is the scumbags can fuck you because they are very good at seeming like one of the sweet ones until it's to late. I'm single I could give a shit, if I was married there's no fucking way I would give a chick my real name. I also wouldn't meet them in my hotel, telos are cheap and made for this. If a chick is indeed trying to set you up to bilk you later it doesn't matter if you give her your real name. If she comes to your room she will get it by bribing one of the hotel employees.

The second reason is, their own claims not withstanding, chicks with lots of rules are seldom superior providers. There are 30,000 sex workers in this town, personally I look for the ones that do what I tell them, not the ones who set the agenda.

I respect their right to have as many rules as they want. It's their body, their business. I don't tell the guy with the kiosko next to my apartment that he should change his business because he's an asshole, I just walk past his kiosko a half a block down the street and go to the one owned by a nice guy who asks me how my day is going and says thanks when I buy something. I find having the attitude that THEY need to work to earn my money works better for me than "oh thank god if I give them money they will let me masturbate with their vaginas for awhile."

Set your agenda, set your rules, if their rules work with yours great, if they don't, fuck them and go to the next. If they are too dumb to figure out that guys who are here for a couple days aren't like the boludos that live here and are not going to waste their time calling random chicks that they don't have the money to fuck then they lose out.

[QUOTE=DaddyRulz;447801]I wouldn't do it. I wouldn't do it for two main reasons. First your concerns are not groundless as the story of Irina on the front page illustrates. There are scum bags in this business. There are also some very sweet chicks in the business. The problem is the scumbags can fuck you because they are very good at seeming like one of the sweet ones until it's to late. I'm single I could give a shit, if I was married there's no fucking way I would give a chick my real name. I also wouldn't meet them in my hotel, telos are cheap and made for this. If a chick is indeed trying to set you up to bilk you later it doesn't matter if you give her your real name. If she comes to your room she will get it by bribing one of the hotel employees.

The second reason is, their own claims not withstanding, chicks with lots of rules are seldom superior providers. There are 30,000 sex workers in this town, personally I look for the ones that do what I tell them, not the ones who set the agenda.

I respect their right to have as many rules as they want. It's their body, their business. I don't tell the guy with the kiosko next to my apartment that he should change his business because he's an asshole, I just walk past his kiosko a half a block down the street and go to the one owned by a nice guy who asks me how my day is going and says thanks when I buy something. I find having the attitude that THEY need to work to earn my money works better for me than "oh thank god if I give them money they will let me masturbate with their vaginas for awhile."

Set your agenda, set your rules, if their rules work with yours great, if they don't, fuck them and go to the next. If they are too dumb to figure out that guys who are here for a couple days aren't like the boludos that live here and are not going to waste their time calling random chicks that they don't have the money to fuck then they lose out.[/QUOTE]I have two guys with phone from us and they stil make me go to hotel and waste my time , theres no one there and fake names , so now i learn boludos are everywhere in this world 😂😂😂but i understand your point too 😘😘.

[QUOTE=Luchi;447802]I have two guys with phone from us and they stil make me go to hotel and waste my time , theres no one there and fake names , so now i learn boludos are everywhere in this world 😂😂😂but i understand your point too 😘😘.[/QUOTE]Another thing I refuse to do is leave my place without the full address including apartment number. The idea of "here's an intersection, text me when you get there and I'll give you the exact address" doesn't work for me either. I have spent way, WAY too much time waiting on a corner for a chick that double booked and is now ignoring my messages. When they hit me with their rules I tell them no, I thank them for answering me, tell them once again that "tengo ganas de verte y plata amor" and if that doesn't do it, then I'm off to the next. Kinda like I'm doing right now with this one [URL]http://www.bairesgirls.net/escorts/Aixa_15-2295-5861_13760.htm[/URL].

[QUOTE=DaddyRulz;447804]Another thing I refuse to do is leave my place without the full address including apartment number. The idea of "here's an intersection, text me when you get there and I'll give you the exact address" doesn't work for me either. I have spent way, WAY too much time waiting on a corner for a chick that double booked and is now ignoring my messages. When they hit me with their rules I tell them no, I thank them for answering me, tell them once again that "tengo ganas de verte y plata amor" and if that doesn't do it, then I'm off to the next. Kinda like I'm doing right now with this one [URL]http://www.bairesgirls.net/escorts/Aixa_15-2295-5861_13760.htm[/URL].[/QUOTE]We loose the point here haha.

What has worked for me so far is when i arrive i buy a pay as you go sim from a kiosko. I can call or text and it comes up as a local number. Anyone I email is done from an account i made up which is specifically for this. Finally, when i invite someone to my hotel i meet them outside the hotel or in the lobby . That way when they sign in they are only giving their info and mine isn't given to them. Maybe i've been lucky and haven't met anyone who wanted to scam me but as far as i know my info isn't listed when they sign in. If i'm wrong about this can someone pls tell me.

[QUOTE=Luchi;447805]We loose the point here haha.[/QUOTE]I however have not.

I had quite a few women come to quite a few hotels in BA, and I never had to give them any info beyond the room number. My last name? Not gonna happen. It's antithetical to the purpose of prostitution.

I'm gonna switch to Google Fi before going to Argentina in November. It provides data access at the flat rate of $10 per gig and that rate is the same in the US and outside. Use 250 Meg, pay $2.50. I don't use much more than a Gig a month traveling or staying home so its a good deal for me. Base unlimited talk and text is $20 a month, international texts are free and voice rates in foreign countries seem very reasonable reasonable. I have an unlocked phone I've used in Costa Rica and Columbia with local sim card but it is a pain to travel with two phones and when your prepay runs out you can be left high and dry. Seem perfect for the traveling monger.

In any case, I plan on using my US number for whatsapp to coordinate with any Chicas I deal with in BA. I'm not married and you can always block anyone who becomes bothersome. I can't really see a downside. Thoughts?

[QUOTE=CharmCityDav;447816]I'm gonna switch to Google Fi before going to Argentina in November. It provides data access at the flat rate of $10 per gig and that rate is the same in the US and outside. Use 250 Meg, pay $2.50. I don't use much more than a Gig a month traveling or staying home so its a good deal for me. Base unlimited talk and text is $20 a month, international texts are free and voice rates in foreign countries seem very reasonable reasonable. I have an unlocked phone I've used in Costa Rica and Columbia with local sim card but it is a pain to travel with two phones and when your prepay runs out you can be left high and dry. Seem perfect for the traveling monger.

In any case, I plan on using my US number for whatsapp to coordinate with any Chicas I deal with in BA. I'm not married and you can always block anyone who becomes bothersome. I can't really see a downside. Thoughts?[/QUOTE]You gotta give them some phone number or the other, right? I suppose you could call from locutorios and just give the address of the apt. You also may very well find that your rental apt has a land line, normally with X amount of free local calling (linea controlada). You could give chicas that number. Although, that number could possibly be more easily traced to your name (through the landlord) than your whatsapp; both my US and Argie phones are untraceable to my name. You can buy a chip and thus a number from any boludo in the street in BA whereas in other places I go (Costa Rica and Panamá, as well as Spain), you can't legally get a number without showing ID. Did you get a chip in CR without showing ID? I bought my int'l phone in a country where I had to register it, but once the argie chip is in there, you'd have to know what country it came from to ever trace it to me. For all I know, the serial # of the phone might reveal that. I don't watch NCIS.

There aren't all [B]that[/B] many Irinas out there.

[QUOTE=DaddyRulz;447801]I wouldn't do it. I wouldn't do it for two main reasons. First your concerns are not groundless as the story of Irina on the front page illustrates. There are scum bags in this business. There are also some very sweet chicks in the business. The problem is the scumbags can fuck you because they are very good at seeming like one of the sweet ones until it's to late. I'm single I could give a shit, if I was married there's no fucking way I would give a chick my real name. I also wouldn't meet them in my hotel, telos are cheap and made for this. If a chick is indeed trying to set you up to bilk you later it doesn't matter if you give her your real name. If she comes to your room she will get it by bribing one of the hotel employees.

The second reason is, their own claims not withstanding, chicks with lots of rules are seldom superior providers. There are 30,000 sex workers in this town, personally I look for the ones that do what I tell them, not the ones who set the agenda.

I respect their right to have as many rules as they want. It's their body, their business. I don't tell the guy with the kiosko next to my apartment that he should change his business because he's an asshole, I just walk past his kiosko a half a block down the street and go to the one owned by a nice guy who asks me how my day is going and says thanks when I buy something. I find having the attitude that THEY need to work to earn my money works better for me than "oh thank god if I give them money they will let me masturbate with their vaginas for awhile."

Set your agenda, set your rules, if their rules work with yours great, if they don't, fuck them and go to the next. If they are too dumb to figure out that guys who are here for a couple days aren't like the boludos that live here and are not going to waste their time calling random chicks that they don't have the money to fuck then they lose out.[/QUOTE]Since it must be very competitive (30,000 sex workers in this town) why are so many of these chicks so flaky and/or unreliable? Could it be that they have enough work and are not hungry enough?

[QUOTE=Antonin;447818]Since it must be very competitive (30,000 sex workers in this town) why are so many of these chicks so flaky and/or unreliable? Could it be that they have enough work and are not hungry enough?[/QUOTE]They are innately flakey.

[QUOTE=Antonin;447818]Since it must be very competitive (30,000 sex workers in this town) why are so many of these chicks so flaky and/or unreliable? Could it be that they have enough work and are not hungry enough?[/QUOTE]The Argie mentality is totally foreign to outsiders (us) . Not to get too deep into this, what a lot of girls are charging, they can get by on one or two clients a week. (not all, most quite a few) Then there is the weird Argie trait where if they have enough money to eat tomorrow (or if there is food in the house for tomorrow) they will not work today. Not all the girls are like this, but there are more then a few and they make it seem like all of them are flaky.

[QUOTE=Dingu;447807]What has worked for me so far is when i arrive i buy a pay as you go sim from a kiosko. I can call or text and it comes up as a local number. Anyone I email is done from an account i made up which is specifically for this. Finally, when i invite someone to my hotel i meet them outside the hotel or in the lobby . That way when they sign in they are only giving their info and mine isn't given to them. Maybe i've been lucky and haven't met anyone who wanted to scam me but as far as i know my info isn't listed when they sign in. If i'm wrong about this can someone pls tell me.[/QUOTE]That is a good way to handle it... Regarding the girl having my phone number, thinking of it, as long as your number does not show up somehow in Google, you can always block calling numbers, whatsapp, IM, etc..

I understand the point of view of the girls, they want to confirm that you are real, and actually at that hotel, well, the client can give the girl the hotel phone number, and room number, and she can just call to talk with the client, that will verify that it is a real client.

For the actual meet up, well just down at the lobby, and then register the girl at the front desk if the hotel requires it, that way I don't know her name, she doesn't know mine. I have always met them at the lobby, it seems more polite than exposing the girl to hotel security and have her go upstairs to knock a strangers door.

By the way, I will kindly ask for your guidance on my search. How reliable are the experiences with Backpage here? I found this girl, she quoted me $120 an hour, $200 for two hours. Look pretty good.

Anyone has met her?

[URL]http://buenosaires.backpage.com/FemaleEscorts/alexa-top-escort-babe-whattsap-005491166161863/2923258[/URL]

Thanks!

Oz.

[QUOTE=Ozymagic;447824]By the way, I will kindly ask for your guidance on my search. How reliable are the experiences with Backpage here? I found this girl, she quoted me $120 an hour, $200 for two hours. Look pretty good.

Anyone has met her?

[URL]http://buenosaires.backpage.com/FemaleEscorts/alexa-top-escort-babe-whattsap-005491166161863/2923258[/URL]

Thanks!

Oz.[/QUOTE]Can't speak to her services but this chick [URL]https://www.escortsbuenosaires.me/escorts/112804[/URL] is using the same phone. Lots of Area VIP chicks fuck for the same or less. The chicks that advertise in English always charge more.

[QUOTE=DaddyRulz;447825]Can't speak to her services but this chick [URL]https://www.escortsbuenosaires.me/escorts/112804[/URL] is using the same phone. Lots of Area VIP chicks fuck for the same or less. The chicks that advertise in English always charge more.[/QUOTE]Pretty obvious it's ye olde bait and switch! Good idea to check the phone numbers! Will check area vip.

Thanks!