All-nighers (todo la noche) with working girls
Greetings everyone,
I was motivated to start this thread by some recent inquiries I had received on the subject of all-nighters with BA working girls.
Many first-time visitors to BA, often FOB from sport-fucking experiences in the Caribbean, Central America and The Philippines, where most girls aspire to be your instant girlfriend, are not always aware of the differences in the more sophisticated commercial sex scene here in Argentina.
One primary misconception of these first-time visitors is their assumption that the girls here expect / desire to spend the night with them as some sort of a "girlfriend".
Let me resolve this confusion:
All-nighters are not a common practice in BA.
First: The sex industry in Argentina is here to serve the needs of Argentine men, not foreigners. Argentine men need to go out, get laid quickly, and then get back home to their girlfriends, wives, family, etc. They're not interested in long liaisons, or bringing the chica back to their apartments, etc.
Second, the vast majority of all working girls have a completely busy life outside of work, and it's difficult for them to just disappear for 12 hours.
Third: Working girls in Argentina are generally not looking for boyfriends, husbands, or a green card. And even if they were, they're not going to allow themselves to be emotionally swayed by the amorous overtures of a tourist who's leaving town in a few days.
Fourth: A surprisingly large percentage of working girls in Argentina are married or have regular boyfriends, and they're just not interested in playing girlfriend.
Fifth: Why do you want to spend the night with an unknown chica who might rip you off while you sleep?
Sixth: If you hit it off, they will stay. If you don't hit it off, why would you want them to stay?
Thanks,
Jackson
Jackson's experience matches mine
Jackson and I frequently have different tastes and styles ie we are generally attracted to different girls. There are girls who are really my freinds--I have been a client for many years. I bring presents. We enjoy having a meal together.
The Todo el noche in BA for me means a 6 or 7 hour stay--sex and maybe a nap, BUT they have kids or other committment and are gone by 5 or 6 am.
There was one who would stay to 7am even after once she spent a few days with me when she lost her apartment / hotel. That one stay was an emergency--she had no where to stay and could leave her stuff with me when she did her Las Lopez gig. With none of these girls was there at root any illussion that I was not and would always be a john--although I would, at times, have fantacies of something else.
Local girls are very sensual and generally good lovers, BUT.
Different culture and different rules. I love Buenos Aires mongering and prefer it to everything else that I have experienced. The mix of Paraguayas or Brazileras living in BA in also a wonderful twist on a theme.
Ken--the basis of a civilian coupling is chemistry
To have a reason bonding, you have to find a woman with whom there is some sort of mutual chemistry--as Jackson suggested. They are out there, but it is trial and error and you will be wrong as often as you are right. If things are going particularly well, bring up extensions of time or just go with the flow. Some girls--without other things to do--will not watch the clock while having a good time. This may be more likely to happen the second or third date as you are more comfortable together.
Most of them have the "Pretty Woman" fantasy
Face it, a lot of clients treat hookers like shit. If you treat one like a lady, are reasonably stylish and decent looking, chances are good that one that you have "chemistry" with will fall all over themselves for you. You can use this to play them like a guitar, go on "dates" instead of just one hour sex sessions. Freebies and etc will flow like the Amazon. I've done it plenty of times.
Just guard your valuables and be careful they aren't able to dose you with GHB or something like that - read the Irina ripoff story for a tasting of how you can be set up in a situation like this.