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  1. #32
    Is it different if you met the girl in let's say a disco on her night out or when you meet her in a night club?

    To me they are still the same person or not?

  2. #31
    Quote Originally Posted by Master J
    Kudos to those who followed the thread back to the original post. As foolish as it may sound it was love at first site. And I will say that for that short time of the first year it was joy, passion, and companionship that I have never felt for any one woman. I would not have traded that for anything. I was walking on air and enjoyed it completely. How many can say that? She changed her ways, we continued a normal relationship for awhile, Only until later did I discover some kinks in the armor. She was more of a semi-pro, perhpas only for some time to support her son. Nevertheless there probaly are some broken parts along the way. But still I would have preferred meeting her in Jumbo.

    What some of the mongers forget is that they are people too. Yes most are hardened and it is a mechanical function that they perform. This was lightening in a bottle. I still childishly melt when I see her and when I hear her voice. As to the origin of the son in question time will tell.
    Hey Master J,

    Hang in there. Similar stories have happened to all men at one.

    Time or another. The biggest lesson I have learn is the following:

    1. If you seem to be very much in love and they know it, they will take advantage of you.

    2. Never ever act like she means the world to you. Always show you can take it or leave it

    3. Never act too too interested. Always keeping them thinking, and if you have one other girl on the side, this also helps.

  3. #30
    Kudos to those who followed the thread back to the original post. As foolish as it may sound it was love at first site. And I will say that for that short time of the first year it was joy, passion, and companionship that I have never felt for any one woman. I would not have traded that for anything. I was walking on air and enjoyed it completely. How many can say that? She changed her ways, we continued a normal relationship for awhile, Only until later did I discover some kinks in the armor. She was more of a semi-pro, perhpas only for some time to support her son. Nevertheless there probaly are some broken parts along the way. But still I would have preferred meeting her in Jumbo.

    What some of the mongers forget is that they are people too. Yes most are hardened and it is a mechanical function that they perform. This was lightening in a bottle. I still childishly melt when I see her and when I hear her voice. As to the origin of the son in question, time will tell.

  4. #29

    Women?

    Don't try to understand em, just rope, throw and brand em. And make sure you give them a raw hide.

  5. #28
    Quote Originally Posted by Andres
    Moral: Don't get attached to women with children.

    Andres
    You are almost correct Andres but I'm afraid I must correct one word.

    Moral: Don't get attached to women.

  6. #27
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    Posts: 1012
    Quote Originally Posted by Phu Bai
    From www.amcostarica.com Front page Sept. 17 07 volume 7 number 184 Be sure and click on (shooting themselves) Ah! Those wonderful rose colored glasses.
    Interesting, thanks.

    It seems to happens usually when women have kids. I don't mean that childless women cannot be perverted, but having kids makes it easier to take sides in case of conflict (as the one of the article)

    Moral: Don't get attached to women with children.

    Andres

  7. #26
    Very interesting. Thanks for the info. I suppose this is further evidence that Costa Rica is very USAmericanized, owing to their long relationship with the US. They are pretty well faded from my thinking, although I did spend 8 months there 5 years ago. And this is only part of the reason.

    I keep suggesting from time to time that this problem is getting more universal. Women are WRITING these types of laws, and men generally aren't even aware that they are being passed. A classic example of the political force of extreme special interests. This crap seems to be spreading from the English speaking countries, where it is near universal.

    What I find even more intriguing (or disgusting? Is that men seem totally incapable of defending themselves in this. They are every bit as bad as the people who keep regurgitating the US conservative talking points. They are like sheep incapable of any real reasoning, it would seem. Brainwashing from babyhood appears to be a very powerful influence indeed.

    Notice this fantastic piece of nonsense in the article:

    "A University of Costa Rica study said 58 percent of women interviewed in a survey experienced some kind of physical or sexual violence in the past 16 years."

    If you ever looked closely at any of these garbage "studies" you would see that they are generally produced by extremist women. And the rules defining "violence" and / or "abuse" are whatever the women thought was useful at the time. And you can be sure it is a very broad definition, designed to yield big numbers. They then use the garbage numbers to justify government action.

    But here, in an article discussing abuse BY WOMEN, the author just can't keep himself from parroting talking points from the women extremists. He therefore attaches more credibility to their lies and spreads them further. That is certainly not helping with the problem he is describing, and destroys a lot of his message. Why do you suppose it is that he can't think a little more about what he is saying?

  8. #25
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    Posts: 2599
    Quote Originally Posted by Andres
    I will say comething that may piss off many mongers, but it's so true that needs to be underlined from time to time.

    Rule # 1 of mongering: NEVER get emotionally involved with a pro or semi-pro.

    NEVER.

    NEVER (in case you didn't get it)

    There is a bazillion girls out there, be in Internet dating sites, in social and athletic clubs, etc. These girls are much more emotionally and intellectually healthy than a girl who makes a living by faking orgasms and interest in customers, and who knows the daylight only by pictures or TV.

    Now, a non-pro may not have the skills of a pro, may not know how to deep throat, or to wear sexy outfits and shoes, or to play the w*ore role that wakes up our deep male instincts to many of us. But this girl would be much better material to raise a kid or to share ordinary things such as trekking, window shopping or gathering with friends. Healthy relationships never involve money for attention, just mutual attraction of personalities.

    Master J made the mistake of falling for a Platynum girl. Once you contact a girl through one of these sites, she IMMEDIATELY and DEFINITELY tags you as a monger. Shen KNOWS you like making true your fantasies of screwing as many hot girls as possible (not bad at all in itself, but sets an unhealthy relationship frame) She will use it as a weapon, sooner or later.

    My advice: Find LTR material elsewhere, and enjoy the pros. Pros may be sweet, they may like to fulfill our fantasies and giving us a great time. It's great, but keep some healthy distance (kind of emotional condon)

    Hope this helps.

    Andres
    Well said Andres, as I've stated before "We pay these girls to Lie to us", its makes for better service.

    How when we start believing the Lie, thats when the trouble starts.

    Exon

  9. #24
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    Posts: 1012

    Rule # 1

    I will say comething that may piss off many mongers, but it's so true that needs to be underlined from time to time.

    Rule # 1 of mongering: NEVER get emotionally involved with a pro or semi-pro.

    NEVER.

    NEVER (in case you didn't get it)

    There is a bazillion girls out there, be in Internet dating sites, in social and athletic clubs, etc. These girls are much more emotionally and intellectually healthy than a girl who makes a living by faking orgasms and interest in customers, and who knows the daylight only by pictures or TV.

    Now, a non-pro may not have the skills of a pro, may not know how to deep throat, or to wear sexy outfits and shoes, or to play the w*ore role that wakes up our deep male instincts to many of us. But this girl would be much better material to raise a kid or to share ordinary things such as trekking, window shopping or gathering with friends. Healthy relationships never involve money for attention, just mutual attraction of personalities.

    Master J made the mistake of falling for a Platynum girl. Once you contact a girl through one of these sites, she IMMEDIATELY and DEFINITELY tags you as a monger. Shen KNOWS you like making true your fantasies of screwing as many hot girls as possible (not bad at all in itself, but sets an unhealthy relationship frame) She will use it as a weapon, sooner or later.

    My advice: Find LTR material elsewhere, and enjoy the pros. Pros may be sweet, they may like to fulfill our fantasies and giving us a great time. It's great, but keep some healthy distance (kind of emotional condon)

    Hope this helps.

    Andres

  10. #23
    Quote Originally Posted by Captain
    How about just enjoying some fine moments with without giving your entire heart & emotions to her & without trying to posess her?
    Two years before my first trip to BA, I saw a girl on Escort-Argentina that I really liked. I saw her my first visit and had a fantastic time.

    My second visit, she was out of the country.

    This past trip, I saw her twice. Both were multi hour dates and were not cheap.

    For me, she is one of the highlights of a Buenos Aires trip and that is enough.

  11. #22
    Quote Originally Posted by Redondo
    This is the girl who is the mom of your kid?
    No, he made the whole thing up.

  12. #21
    Quote Originally Posted by Master J
    Greetings,

    I been pondering weather to share my tale of lost love in BA, but I think it will be both healing and conversational, so here goes. Please try to be compassionate and wait to hear the whole story before we jump to judgement. Much thanks to this board for making my first trip to BA become a reality. Three Thanksgivings ago I had discovered the board by accident and was fascinated at what BA had in store for me. I spend the 30 days prior to leaving casually calling some internet gems, and I tried to make some dates for when I arrived. I struck it up with a very soothing voice and we had plans to meet on the Friday of 2003. She was beautiful in the picture and did not come across with the completo, fantasia, mi amor conversation. I had the feeling I made a date.

    So after mucho miles in the air I arrived at the Hilton and was immediately dumbstruck with how much BA had to offer, Puerto Madero was magnifficent, Cabannas was awesome, and the prices were three years ago. Evening comes around and my girl was to be there at 8:00, shows at 9:30. So I open the door and gentleman I do not know if you know the feeling, but I was struck by lightning. She was beautiful as only Argentinan women can be. Jet dark hair, gorgeous face, young, and quietstyle of beauty. So we get a little acquanited she calls in for two hours, and then I find myself in bed with this gorgeous creature. She starts off by offering a BBBJ and it was like I was 17 again. I trembled with every move, her touch was incredible, and it was just a metter of time before I hit the roof. SO now I am used to my Russina ex girlfriend, Pamela Anderson type body, who would leave the bed and find a way to a most expensive shopping spree, but nooooo, my little honey is in my arms for no more than 5 minutes and proceed to go downtown again for what is still the BEST BJ in my life, 40 something. So now I am in heaven and say I want to see her the next day.

    So for the next week I spend 7 days with her every night for unbelievable sex with kissing, laughter, dinners on Sunday night, room service, everything! Never asked for any money after the first two nights, we were just enjoying each other. Unbelievable right, should'nt happen. The street are tough, right? Moving along the last night I leave Sunday flight to Chi-town and my angel, my love, as we leave tears up as we get my bags. I ask for the home number, we say goddbye and I feel like a hit the lottery.

    We speak during the next couple of weeks, it feels great, so I say "Hey I want to see you again, I am coming for Christmas"! Que Bueno, and here I am three weeks later for an even more exciting time. Most of the time we are in bed and I think on arriving on Friday late afternoon hit 7 orgasms when we left for a late brunch on Saturday. Real. SO it goes good for the whole week and again parting is like Romeo and Juliet. I am really to old to be feeling this great, but I am walking on air!

    Get home we talk and I say look I really would rather you not be doing what you do, so let me send some little contribution for you and your son, you live with mom and step, and I want you for me. She says OK, I am here for you. We speak everyday and night and this thing feels great, f*$%^ ing great! My suggestion, not prompted at all. This is love, man.

    Hey honey I want to come there for your birthday in February, so here Javier goes again. This time we take a couple of days and we go to Cordoba, rent a car go to La Cumbre, I find a romantic cottage and we are on our Lunar de Miel! Honeymoon. This feels like I met my half, not on spat yet, all love, I stay away from the past as best as I can, and it works. We fill out the fiancee forms and my baby is coming to live with me!

    Speed it up a little, little turbelance in the summer. RED light warning unheaded. And now I am back September. First thing out of the mouth is I don't feel like I did before. WHat. So this I know is called isterica, I want you, I don't. I want you. I don't. Very popular with the natives her. So I say this is our week to be husband and wife. Boom it works and another week of absolute bliss. Intimate apparel, multilple o's, but really much more like goood couple sex than h sex. SO now I am in a beautiful apartment in Palermo Libertador, and most nights now we cook, lay on the couch, walk a litlle and mostly just love, touch, and care for each other. She was not one much for the Te amo words, but preferred to show or demonsatrate. Flawless face, body, and it was cute. Little age dif but here it seems to work.

    Hope your OK so far, now I come dowm for November, Happy Aniiversary, and meet the kid, great, but she needs a little push for the final Fotos for the passport. Months go by and Boom, accepted fiancee Visa, which by the way was self filled out no lawyer BS, the SA US embassy was direct and thorogh with their part and it was not the big deal that has been painted to be, for us. She did her part with the policia, and medical and the interview went fine. She must have wanted to come. We also got approval from the child's father to come. Documents through a lawyer. Second red light ignored.

    So now after about a year a half I have tickets for March for my beauty to come. I see her at 7:00 AM in Miami and I think I am going to faint. We are together to try to make it work. First couple of night, like the marriage I wished I had. Unbelievable. The kid is in school and it is kind of working. She stays up until 1:00am putting the son to bed and after washing etc. I am now going to sleep most night now at 3:00 or more. School at 7, so now we nap in the day together. My life is slipping away. Dinners are great, family is happening, only one thing seems clear to me. She is not in love with me. We all know when the change happens, never really know why the switch is pulled, but I know. Little things like she asks usually for nothing, but now for $20 for mom to keep the phone number, or her friends emailing saying can't wait to see you again. So my love is slipping from me. I ask if she wan't to stay and be married (phrase here is idiota, but love is blind) and she smirks and says are you kidding me? Here. It did not help that I somehow I still had my Platynum page, and yes she did catch me one day, she says that was the deal breaker, but I think it was over before then. So one day in June of 05 she is out of here.

    We speak for a while after and I say I am coming again November 05 to see her one more time. New apartment Sante Fe 2800 penthouse and I am like a heroin boy who can't wait for the knock on the door. I see her the first moment and it was like the first time again. Dinner with kid, and we now make love, unprotected int the hope of making a family together. IQ 65 thank you.

    Go to far away zoo, and again feeling a little distance. SO we get back around 5 and for the 10th time she says she feels nothing for me. Bummed would sum it up. My fault really, she tried to say and I did not listen. SO for the balance of the week we talked a little and I was ordering in and Sante fe 1707 and it was OK, but no where near what I had before, not even close.

    So the last night I asked could she please spend the night if in fact this was the last time we would see each other, and she says she was nauseous. Idiota believes wow honey I hope you are carrying our child! In 6 days thank you.

    No show, until the last 30 minute in BA. She came from far, and I can stil feel her lips on mine for what turned out to be our swan song last breath kiss. Try to call a little later and it appears she moved out two months later to be on her own.

    Now this past April 06 I go to BA, trip 7, and now I am mongering like everyone else. Four hands was great for two hours and I asked what the locals ask for the relax part for the whole hour, it is allowed and I did enjoy it! I tried Black, no take out and a BG girl Karla who sucks the paint off the walls, but alas no love. The PS to the story is I call the Mom, she invited me over and I now see videos of the baby inside sonogram, that my love is carrying, a boy gentleman. My mind races over waht are my rights, if she does not want to see me the baby should have the right to, etc. What would you do? Act like an NBA player or be the man. So it was a good week, not like any of the previous weeks, but BA in a different form. I was not loved while I was there, but still a much better time than in Ft. Lauderdale or so.

    So my key question is, can I return after this experience. Still after the lies, the avoidance, the rejection, I still either love the city or the memories of her? I have plans to come November 06. But wondering if there is still a good time to be had. It is not like it is around the corner, right. SO a little gentle guidance or comments wouuld be appreciated. I hope the post does not become a laughing joke around the crew. Thanks for taking the time to listen. PPS. The baby is from the father of the first son. She is now living with him and his drinking and drug habits are f#$@ing it up for everybody. My poor sweety. Baby is OK, but it would appear to be the wrong door to me.

    Javier
    This is the girl who is the mom of your kid?

  13. #20
    Master J,

    I read your story. It was intriguing & sad but I would this story is common for so many men who have imported wives from S. A or Easter Europe to US or West europe.

    I want to start a thread where anybody who has ever dated a "pro" can relate their experiences.

    Also, I will like to know the views on, how about dating a "pro" but letting her stay where she is staying & letting her do what she is doing!

    How about just enjoying some fine moments with without giving your entire heart & emotions to her & without trying to posess her?

    I know some of you guys would say, its better to get a new girl every time. I full agree with it. I am not saying, do NOT monger. All I am saying is that is enjoy repeated sessions and outings with one partcular girl without trying to stop mongering OR trying to own her.

  14. #19
    Quote Originally Posted by Exon123
    Master J.

    Another "Exowion" expression is that if it "Fly's, Floats or Fucks, You Rent It"

    Exon
    Classic Exon, I think you could give lectures on your mongering thoughts.

  15. #18
    J,

    Sorry to hear about your misadventure in BA. Good thing to remind ourselves of. I'm divorced so I can relate somewhat. I say when you go you gotta have the attitude that you're on vacation and what you see, smell, touch can't go back with you. You can't go to a Vegas casino and take back the experience of a show or go to an amusement park and take home one of the rides. These are just things that while fun, stay where they're at. Unless you live there, but thats a different story. Thanks though for sharing your experience. This is a good reminder to us all.

    I'd suggest maybe find a new place to make new memories. Argentine women aren't the only ones. Maybe Brazil or some place in Asia. Just always remember that you're there for fun and not to find a wife. Good luck!

    Jack

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