Marrying a chica

[El Perro]

Master J,

I don't think the fact that she is a hooker has anything to do with the end of your relationship with her. And yes, she did enjoy the good times you had together. No, she wasn't always faking emotions, etc. But NONE of that translates into a long term relationship, be it marriage or something else. She probably fooled herself part of the time you were together, just as you fooled yourself. Y'all had a nice fling, and it went downhill once "seriousness" entered the picture. Happens all the time, with hookers and non hookers. Good luck. Come to BA, why not? But not because she's here. It's over.

[Exon123]

Master J.

I'm sorry to read of your experience but not at all suprised and at the end of the day she did you a favior.

Another "Exowion" expression is that if it "Fly's, Floats or Fucks, You Rent It"

Thats my approch to Mongering.

Be happy that she cut it off and she's out of your life or you might have ended up like my friend & our fearless leader Jackson. Poor Bastart, with a woman thats made his life miserable for years.

Exon

[Thomaso276]

Sorry it did not work out. I wouldn't even come to BA as the city will trigger memories. Go somewhere else and who knows what will happen.

[Hunt99]

So my key question is, can I return after this experience.

"No."

Be happy you didn't marry her. If she had been smart in pulling off the scam she would have had you down at the courthouse for a quickie wedding, shortly thereafter she would have bruised herself, called the police, and had you arrested for spousal battery. Add in a few more calls to the police for your "stalking" after the judge put you out of your own house for her "safety." She would then have collected at least half of what you own, if not more.

Consider yourself lucky she was just a dumb whoare, not a smart grifter.

[Bairespirata]

Why does the relationship end? Maybe because you "buy" a wife? Maybe you are 45 or more and she 25. When a young latina comes to the US she will notice that there are a lot of good looking men in her own age. That can make her feel unattractive and she then get's irritated with her boyfriend / husband-because he makes her feel old.

[Master J]

Greetings,

I been pondering weather to share my tale of lost love in BA, but I think it will be both healing and conversational, so here goes. Please try to be compassionate and wait to hear the whole story before we jump to judgement. Much thanks to this board for making my first trip to BA become a reality. Three Thanksgivings ago I had discovered the board by accident and was fascinated at what BA had in store for me. I spend the 30 days prior to leaving casually calling some internet gems, and I tried to make some dates for when I arrived. I struck it up with a very soothing voice and we had plans to meet on the Friday of 2003. She was beautiful in the picture and did not come across with the completo, fantasia, mi amor conversation. I had the feeling I made a date.

So after mucho miles in the air I arrived at the Hilton and was immediately dumbstruck with how much BA had to offer, Puerto Madero was magnifficent, Cabannas was awesome, and the prices were three years ago. Evening comes around and my girl was to be there at 8:00, shows at 9:30. So I open the door and gentleman I do not know if you know the feeling, but I was struck by lightning. She was beautiful as only Argentinan women can be. Jet dark hair, gorgeous face, young, and quietstyle of beauty. So we get a little acquanited she calls in for two hours, and then I find myself in bed with this gorgeous creature. She starts off by offering a BBBJ and it was like I was 17 again. I trembled with every move, her touch was incredible, and it was just a metter of time before I hit the roof. SO now I am used to my Russina ex girlfriend, Pamela Anderson type body, who would leave the bed and find a way to a most expensive shopping spree, but nooooo, my little honey is in my arms for no more than 5 minutes and proceed to go downtown again for what is still the BEST BJ in my life, 40 something. So now I am in heaven and say I want to see her the next day.

So for the next week I spend 7 days with her every night for unbelievable sex with kissing, laughter, dinners on Sunday night, room service, everything! Never asked for any money after the first two nights, we were just enjoying each other. Unbelievable right, should'nt happen. The street are tough, right? Moving along the last night I leave Sunday flight to Chi-town and my angel, my love, as we leave tears up as we get my bags. I ask for the home number, we say goddbye and I feel like a hit the lottery.

We speak during the next couple of weeks, it feels great, so I say "Hey I want to see you again, I am coming for Christmas"! Que Bueno, and here I am three weeks later for an even more exciting time. Most of the time we are in bed and I think on arriving on Friday late afternoon hit 7 orgasms when we left for a late brunch on Saturday. Real. SO it goes good for the whole week and again parting is like Romeo and Juliet. I am really to old to be feeling this great, but I am walking on air!

Get home we talk and I say look I really would rather you not be doing what you do, so let me send some little contribution for you and your son, you live with mom and step, and I want you for me. She says OK, I am here for you. We speak everyday and night and this thing feels great, f*$%^ ing great! My suggestion, not prompted at all. This is love, man.

Hey honey I want to come there for your birthday in February, so here Javier goes again. This time we take a couple of days and we go to Cordoba, rent a car go to La Cumbre, I find a romantic cottage and we are on our Lunar de Miel! Honeymoon. This feels like I met my half, not on spat yet, all love, I stay away from the past as best as I can, and it works. We fill out the fiancee forms and my baby is coming to live with me!

Speed it up a little, little turbelance in the summer. RED light warning unheaded. And now I am back September. First thing out of the mouth is I don't feel like I did before. WHat. So this I know is called isterica, I want you, I don't. I want you. I don't. Very popular with the natives her. So I say this is our week to be husband and wife. Boom it works and another week of absolute bliss. Intimate apparel, multilple o's, but really much more like goood couple sex than h sex. SO now I am in a beautiful apartment in Palermo Libertador, and most nights now we cook, lay on the couch, walk a litlle and mostly just love, touch, and care for each other. She was not one much for the Te amo words, but preferred to show or demonsatrate. Flawless face, body, and it was cute. Little age dif but here it seems to work.

Hope your OK so far, now I come dowm for November, Happy Aniiversary, and meet the kid, great, but she needs a little push for the final Fotos for the passport. Months go by and Boom, accepted fiancee Visa, which by the way was self filled out no lawyer BS, the SA US embassy was direct and thorogh with their part and it was not the big deal that has been painted to be, for us. She did her part with the policia, and medical and the interview went fine. She must have wanted to come. We also got approval from the child's father to come. Documents through a lawyer. Second red light ignored.

So now after about a year a half I have tickets for March for my beauty to come. I see her at 7:00 AM in Miami and I think I am going to faint. We are together to try to make it work. First couple of night, like the marriage I wished I had. Unbelievable. The kid is in school and it is kind of working. She stays up until 1:00am putting the son to bed and after washing etc. I am now going to sleep most night now at 3:00 or more. School at 7, so now we nap in the day together. My life is slipping away. Dinners are great, family is happening, only one thing seems clear to me. She is not in love with me. We all know when the change happens, never really know why the switch is pulled, but I know. Little things like she asks usually for nothing, but now for $20 for mom to keep the phone number, or her friends emailing saying can't wait to see you again. So my love is slipping from me. I ask if she wan't to stay and be married (phrase here is idiota, but love is blind) and she smirks and says are you kidding me? Here. It did not help that I somehow I still had my Platynum page, and yes she did catch me one day, she says that was the deal breaker, but I think it was over before then. So one day in June of 05 she is out of here.

We speak for a while after and I say I am coming again November 05 to see her one more time. New apartment Sante Fe 2800 penthouse and I am like a heroin boy who can't wait for the knock on the door. I see her the first moment and it was like the first time again. Dinner with kid, and we now make love, unprotected int the hope of making a family together. IQ 65 thank you.

Go to far away zoo, and again feeling a little distance. SO we get back around 5 and for the 10th time she says she feels nothing for me. Bummed would sum it up. My fault really, she tried to say and I did not listen. SO for the balance of the week we talked a little and I was ordering in and Sante fe 1707 and it was OK, but no where near what I had before, not even close.

So the last night I asked could she please spend the night if in fact this was the last time we would see each other, and she says she was nauseous. Idiota believes wow honey I hope you are carrying our child! In 6 days thank you.

No show, until the last 30 minute in BA. She came from far, and I can stil feel her lips on mine for what turned out to be our swan song last breath kiss. Try to call a little later and it appears she moved out two months later to be on her own.

Now this past April 06 I go to BA, trip 7, and now I am mongering like everyone else. Four hands was great for two hours and I asked what the locals ask for the relax part for the whole hour, it is allowed and I did enjoy it! I tried Black, no take out and a BG girl Karla who sucks the paint off the walls, but alas no love. The PS to the story is I call the Mom, she invited me over and I now see videos of the baby inside sonogram, that my love is carrying, a boy gentleman. My mind races over waht are my rights, if she does not want to see me the baby should have the right to, etc. What would you do? Act like an NBA player or be the man. So it was a good week, not like any of the previous weeks, but BA in a different form. I was not loved while I was there, but still a much better time than in Ft. Lauderdale or so.

So my key question is, can I return after this experience. Still after the lies, the avoidance, the rejection, I still either love the city or the memories of her? I have plans to come November 06. But wondering if there is still a good time to be had. It is not like it is around the corner, right. SO a little gentle guidance or comments wouuld be appreciated. I hope the post does not become a laughing joke around the crew. Thanks for taking the time to listen. PPS. The baby is from the father of the first son. She is now living with him and his drinking and drug habits are f#$@ing it up for everybody. My poor sweety. Baby is OK, but it would appear to be the wrong door to me.

Javier

[Party BMW]

I would not marry one but I would definately would bring one to the states. Just as a girlfriend, marriage is one thing, girlfriend is another. Who cares if your girlfriend was a ***** if she pleases you sexually like you want its good. But to have your kids, hell no.

The problem is they will never ever recover from whoring emotionally.

I have been through two emotional attachments in BA and I would have liked to bring them. Only problem is I'm already married in the states, minor detail. Jeje.

I have something I am curious about. I will go ahead and state that I am not considering it, and it really never occured to me to do it. The reason I bring it up is that some friends were asking why I didn't bring one back like some other guys we know. I know of a few guys who came down here, became enamored with a chica, married her, and carted her away to the States. Of the ones I know about one of them is over, and the other isn't going so well. Have any of you ever considered it? Do you think the chicas are damaged goods or are they just women doing what they have to do? I will admit when I first got down here I fell head over heels for a girl, but I ended it before it got too far. I could see it happening but I haven't met one that made me want to go through all the hassle to get them back to the States. I always hear about how women in SA make the best wives. Personally I think once any woman gets into the US culture there is a danger that she will become materialistic and start looking for the bigger better deal. Anyway, just food for thought.

[Hunt99]

Once A ***** Always A *****. No Exceptions

The reverse is also true, I think. Once a john, always a john. No exceptions.

[Strad]

I know a couple of Argentinean guys, married to americans here in the states. It seems American chicas into SA guys. While I was living in Taxes, an beautiful blonde whom I knew, married to an Mexican guy.

[Ampfofu]

Watch out. Many of these Chicas are so cool and so sexy, but when they get the idea of coming to USA things will change. Most of my non pro women do not even want to step foot in USA though. Many Argentine people are not happy with Bush and The USA.

However, the pro chicas will see it as a open door to more possabilities.

[Geo Eye]

Once A ***** Always A *****. No Exceptions

[Dickhead]

You can take the chica out of the whorehouse but you can't take the whorehouse out of the chica.

[Lunico]

I once met a Mexican Doctor in Sonoma, CA. We met on a winery tour. After sharing a conversation about women and wine, we ended up talking about BA. It seems my friend has visited 3 times as I had. He's not that well informed but I sent him on the straight and narrow in terms of price and availability. Afte a few glasses of wine he told me that he brought a girl from Cuba to Mexico to make his casa chica (girlfriend who he supports) In 7 days she went from lovely dovey to stay the hell away from me. Its stories like this that would prohibit me from taking a girl away from the city in which she was found. Suerty gents. Mucha suerte.

[Geo Eye]

Hey Billy,

You can always live with one of these women, you don't have to get married.

Bythe way I am wondering are you talking about working girls or regular non pros.

Let me give you a little advise, the best women in sa who are warm hearted and respect thier man and make the best partners, (marriage or otherwise) are women from Chile. They are sexy, attractive and intelligent. They also do not take thier relationship for granted, and from what I see are the only women who cheat the least on their man.

Lots of my single friend, also say they have had wonderful xp with Chilean women.

Good luck fellow dog.

Geo

[Billy 32]

Thanks for the reply Geo Eye. In retrospect I might should have put this in Chit Chat, if the mod wants to move it that's fine, I do not want to clutter the board with BS.

Geo, to clarify my position. When I got here the first time I went stupid for the first hot chica that told me how great I was. Once I caught on a little better I put an end to it. I realize how manipulative these girls can be. The reason I brought the topic up is that I have had a lot of people, upon finding out that I spent months down here, ask me where my South American wife is. It seems that everyone knows of someone who came to SA, fell in love, and married a SA woman. I personally know of three that married chicas from BsAs. It really never occured to me to marry a chica but it seems some do. I guess I just wanted to get a conversation going about it and see what you guys think. The men on this board have more experience with SA women that anyone I know. So do you think the idea that SA women make the best wives is true, or just a rumor.