MONGERS! Really? Can't we find a better monicker than that?

[TejanoLibre]

I don't know about the rest of you guys, but I try to be a gentleman, and I may visit a massage with happy ending, and maybe more, but it is just a way of having a date that you know will finish the way you'd like.

Why Monger? That is a name like we are attacking them. Shoot, we are just having a relationship with them that deals with money.

If you have a wife or girlfriend, most likely your relationship also often revolves around money. So ya know, we aren't some dark, evil guys. So can't we find a better monicker (name) for us?

How about a Love Broker?

TL.

[El Perro]

But I had a couple experiences lately that have kinda put me off surfing the booties.

Sorry to hear that Daddy. A vocational hazard as it were.

[Daddy Rulz]

Butthole Surfers doesn't blow your hair back Daddy? I thought it might.

But I had a couple experiences lately that have kinda put me off surfing the booties.

[El Perro]

In English I'm a fucking monger. In Spanish a putaero. Call a spade a spade is what I say. I fucking love hookers and don't need to sugarcoat it.

Butthole Surfers doesn't blow your hair back Daddy? I thought it might.

[Daddy Rulz]

In English I'm a fucking monger. In Spanish a putañero. Call a spade a spade is what I say. I fucking love hookers and don't need to sugarcoat it.

[Tres3]

Butthole Surfers.

That stinks.

Tres3.

[Jackson]

I've always preferred the term "Sport Fucker" or "Sport Fuckers".

Jax.

[El Perro]

Butthole Surfers.

[Gandolf50]

I have to admit I always liked the term "Hobbyist" !

[Poomonate]

Damn right also checkout www.sexcited.co.za or kinkyescorts. Co. Za.

[Franky Double]

In South Africa we call it punter / punting too.

Have a look at www.esa.co.za/forum

[El Caballero]

"Punter" - that sounds good.

I brought all this up, because what we do is similar to regular dating. Some men want an actual partner to share their life with, but all of us want to find someone who will give us sex.

If you want a woman for sex, and are not planning on trying to find a life-partner, who could read the following and choose to be a regular date?

Gets ready for the date / night-out:

Monger & regular date both shower and get clean. However the regular dater has to possibly spend money to make sure he has the right outfit to impress ($$$) Monger, if he reserves a chica he knows is good, sets aside 150 pesos for a night he is almost 100% assure will have a happy-ending. The regular date may set aside 60 pesos for meal, 20-40 for entry to fancy club, 20-40 for drinks & tips just for self, 40-80 for drinks & tips for the girls he tries to entertain, 10-20 for the rose you buy to impress, 40 more just for taxi or something else you will probaby have to buy for her.

We choose a place to checkout for ladies:

Monger looks on the sites for chicas & regular dater checks out the bar.

We look for our type:

Monger looks on the sites and picks a girl & regular dater scopes out the bar until he finds someone who MAY not shut-him-down.

We start the connection:

Monger calls or emails until one of his choices is available or just stops by a location and takes his chances & regular dater buys her a drink, asks her to dance or makes small talk.

The attempt for intimacy:

Monger arrives and is treated like a king, by a girl in almost no clothes, she doesn't ask him 'where have you been!', or say 'I don't like your friends', or 'did you pay the phone bill'. Etc, and she takes him straight to a cozy room where she is happy to see him, focuses on him, and makes him feel her top priority, then she massages him and gives him great sex.

The regular dater, after failing to connect with several girls that evening or several evenings in a row, finally listens to enough crap and works hard enough to get a girl interested (he may have had to settle down a level of looks he'd have preferred not to) so he tries to get her to go to a temp hotel or back to his place. 2 out of 4 says no. But maybe he'll get a kiss (whoopee)

The follow-up:

Monger finishes and pays, and tips well, so that he can return and to make it a happy good-bye, because he chooses to. He never has to see or talk to her again and he can call her for another get together whenever he wants without any awkward feelings or worry of rejection.

The regular date, finally got lucky - the girl was so-so and now she either 1) doesn't want to leave and she is not someone he feels a connection to - and she keeps calling and calling like a crazy *****, or 2) he wants to see her again and she might make it seem like she is interested but never returns calls or she definitely didn't like being with him and rejects him immediately from calling ever again, or 3) neither one of you enjoyed being together and there is an awkard end to the good-bye.

Which one of the Monger actions makes us sound more evil, or more like a predator than the regular dater? Neither - hence why I don't like "Monger". In fact, the females are in the cruel and Monger'ish role in a regular date scene. The manner of western dating and men's inability to be in control of the situation causes the need to Monger & a lot of the negative crap you see on TV / Movies about dating - think about it.

Which made us sound like were out for just sex more? - Neither - trust me. Even nice guys, almost always have just one thing on their mind when they go out - No it's not necessarily "TONIGHT I MUST HAVE SEX" - but it is almost always the desire for "I REALLY WANT INTIMACY (which could just be intense kissing, touching, and passion) AND A WOMAN TO MAKE ME FEEL SHE IS INTO ME".

My point is, we are just being guys, when we are called "Mongers". We are just guys who are lucky enough to be in a financial situation and location to pay for a more direct approach at what we all want. Heck, I even "like" the girls I am with. I'd help them if I wanted to and be their friend. But IF I WANTED TO. See I am no longer required to do so, just to get what I want from her. It's kind of like a tax payer who pays all his bills and a welfare recipient. I am made to help that person, when I'd rather it be a choice.

[Wild Walleye]

Near enough WW. As we know in this sport of ours (punting) even with the help of boards like this, there is a huge element of chance and unpredictability involved. It seems to me that punter (I. E gambler or speculator, naive customer) is a much better term than monger.

Ours is a game of speculation, anticipation, disappointment and elation (along with a few other words ending in -tion)

The most popular UK prostitute reviewing board is [url]www. Punternet. Co. Uk

I intentionally left that gem out. While I have happily navigated many moons (not the kind in the sky) in London, particularly around Shepherds Market thanks to PN (anybody remember Barbie (I forget the West London neighborhood but she was a legend); AP has provided me with much, much more.

[Ken Brown]

Am pleased to finally confirm what I have been theorising for ages. Gentlemen that are open to / frequent places that are supposedly of ill repute (and I refer to the puritanical sense of the term) and are possessing of the gall to discuss this in a perfectly sensible way, are quite more the level headed and (dare I say) intellectually honest breed of an ever dwindling number of cads ('cads' in the sense of Mr. Doolittle, from 'My Fair Lady', for those who are familiar with this film)

Quite the contrast with the stuffy, correct and 'WASP'y folks that have smoldering fires within, but represent serene lakes outside.

In my emotive mood, so forgive the hyperbole.

Ken

[Stan Da Man]

Why Monger? That is a name like we are attacking them. Shoot, we are just having a relationship with them that deals with money.

Personally, I've grown rather fond of "monger". It is rather off-putting at first. Kind of sounds low class. But, you can get accustomed to it. "Fellow mongers" sounds better to me than "fellow sport fuckers" or "fellow c*nt hunters." Also, it gives rise to phrases like "gentlemonger", or "monger on, dude."

Punter also works, but that seems more English and genteel to my ear -- sort of like drinking tea with your pinkie out.