1 hour w anal = how much anal?

[TejanoLibre]

Some of the strange comments below are confused and off topic, so, just so there is no confusion: I am a ridiculously nice guy! I never do anything to a girl I feel she's not into. This is what's been happening: I pay for an hour w cola. Then I notice the girl isn't into it. Then I stop. Because I am a very nice guy. I just come quickly, and then I leave and I feel bad about the whole thing. Not just did I waste my money, but I also got pissed off. Then I try again. I keep looking for someone who can provide what I want and what I ask for and I'm told I'll get. I keep thinking, mistakenly, that I'll get what I'm paying for.

On my many previous trips to BA, I've never had a problem finding girls I clicked with and who were into my style of fucking. Trust me, there are many working girls out there who are extremely skilled at giving extended session of anal sex. Some of these girls I've seen over and over again and befriended.

But so far on this trip, I've just been lucky with one girl - and she's a very flaky independent and so hard to get hold of.

I am a very nice guy too but business is business!

I actively seek out the ANAL QUEENS.

It's a truly wonderful thing to watch these girls have anal orgasms.

Much more intense than a vaginal and no worries about pregnancy!

The girl will tell you if she likes it or not from the get go.

I have witnessed transformations where the girls now prefer anal over conventional.

I never ask them to do something that they don't like because the service will be a joke!

I'm sure that many of girls do not like it but the ones that do are really into it.

A huge percentage of Paraguayans and Brazilians love it but Argentines are a little less likely to enjoy it.

Then again it's ALL about the technique and preparation.

Many of the Privado girls are stuck having to fuck ugly, drunk locals that treat them like shit.

TL

[Fedora]

To continue the digressions (the topic, remember, is: how much anal to reasonably expect when you've paid for one hour of anal – I suggest one hour (take or give a few min) – still looking for other rational suggestions):

To think it is wrong to see (and treat) a sex worker as a sex object is as absurd as thinking it is wrong to see (and treat) a sheep herder as a sheep herder or a tailor as a tailor.

I suspect those who see a difference do so for one of two reasons: a) they think sex is some kind of morally tainted activity– and that's why it's difference from tailoring and sheep herding. It isn't. That's an illusion. It's just an activity like eating or walking or talking or any other the other tings we do – except it feels really good. Or: B) they think women should be thought of as 'pure' and that having sex is in some way degrading for them or contaminates them. This is blatant sexism. It doesn't make woman 'impure' or degraded to have sex– it's just a smart way to make money.

All that said, of course we should be nice and friendly to all the people we interact with in all walks of life – treating a tailor as a tailor, doesn't mean you're not nice to her. Seeing someone who's selling an hour of anal sex as a sex object, doesn't mean you're not nice to her. (Unless you're under the illusion that having anal sex with someone is being 'not nice' to them (try telling that to all the gay guys out there)

Of course, and now I'm digressing from the digression, some guys are not that into fucking when they see sex workers: they are into what some girls think of as SCC'ing: Snuggle, Cuddle and Chatting (maybe with a little gentle poking at the end) That's fine, with me. You can pay for that – I don't get it, but there's a lot of stuff I don't get. But it's not more morally pure or friendly towards prostitutes. It you want to be nice to people, give money to Amnesty.

[Westy]

Call me a soft hearted sentimental old fool if you like. But I prefer to treat chicas as human beings and not just as sex objects or "sex service providers" At a practical level it also means I often have a much more memorable engaging experience.

Count me in with you, Lysander.

I won't be showing up "Here At The Western World" for a power trip. "The sweetness (I've) been crying for" is a nice namorando-style GFE; not a porn-star exhibition match to see how many holes I can stuff how full, how hard, how fast, for how long. (Apologies to Becker & Fagin for borrowing from their lyrics.

Yeah, I paid for an hour and I want my full hour - but Mr. Toad doesn't have to spend the whole hour rootin' in the dirt, if it's too much for "Senorita Conchita." I might not even spend the whole hour in exercise, because a nice relaxed cuddly intermezzo is sweet for me too!

One man's meat is another man's person.

Cheers,

Westy

[Exon123]

Well Fedora. Your post says it all really. Your comparison with road construction workers is quite revealing. From your point of view if you've paid her for a service the chica should deliver, even if she finds it unpleasant. Girls tell me that for a lot of guys, especially locals and other latinos, one of the attraction of P4P is a power thing. They pay their money and for an hour they own her - she has to do whatever they want. For these guys anal sex is a big turn on not because it feels any better, but because it is something that most normal girlfriends don't really like doing. The common use of the spanish verb entregar (as in "entrego la cola" - I. E. She gave up her anus) conveys this attitude all too clearly.

Call me a soft hearted sentimental old fool if you like. But I prefer to treat chicas as human beings and not just as sex objects or "sex service providers" At a practical level it also means I often have a much more memorable engaging experience.

Lysander

Tambien Lysander.

Exon

[Fedora]

Some of the strange comments below are confused and off topic, so, just so there is no confusion: I am a ridiculously nice guy! I never do anything to a girl I feel she's not into. This is what's been happening: I pay for an hour w cola. Then I notice the girl isn't into it. Then I stop. Because I am a very nice guy. I just come quickly, and then I leave and I feel bad about the whole thing. Not just did I waste my money, but I also got pissed off. Then I try again. I keep looking for someone who can provide what I want and what I ask for and I'm told I'll get. I keep thinking, mistakenly, that I'll get what I'm paying for.

On my many previous trips to BA, I've never had a problem finding girls I clicked with and who were into my style of fucking. Trust me, there are many working girls out there who are extremely skilled at giving extended session of anal sex. Some of these girls I've seen over and over again and befriended.

But so far on this trip, I've just been lucky with one girl - and she's a very flaky independent and so hard to get hold of.

[Lysander]

About the girls and the job and how hard it is - I'm sure it can be unpleasant (though they tell me that with anesthetic cream, they don't feel much at all) - however, that's the job they signed up for. Here is how I think of it: I'm sure working on road construction in the heat in the summer in Buenos Aires is really, really unpleasant - hours and hours in the burning heat digging holes in the ground with cars moving around you. It's a tough job and very unpleasant. But that's the job they signed up for, so that's what they do. They dig holes for hours. Same goes for the girls. They have a hard job. As a compensation, they make very much more than the guys digging holes all day. So I see no reason why they shouldn't do their job. It's just incompetence and laziness.

Well Fedora. Your post says it all really. Your comparison with road construction workers is quite revealing. From your point of view if you've paid her for a service the chica should deliver, even if she finds it unpleasant. Girls tell me that for a lot of guys, especially locals and other latinos, one of the attraction of P4P is a power thing. They pay their money and for an hour they own her - she has to do whatever they want. For these guys anal sex is a big turn on not because it feels any better, but because it is something that most normal girlfriends don't really like doing. The common use of the spanish verb entregar (as in "entrego la cola" - I. E. She gave up her anus) conveys this attitude all too clearly.

Call me a soft hearted sentimental old fool if you like. But I prefer to treat chicas as human beings and not just as sex objects or "sex service providers" At a practical level it also means I often have a much more memorable engaging experience.

Lysander

[Fedora]

Fedora,

Could you do a take whole hour of cola in your ass?

Exon

There are many jobs I couldn't and wouldn't do – e. G. I wouldn't and couldn't dig holes in the road in the heat for 9 hours a day. I couldn't and wouldn't work as a bike messenger in New York, I couldn't and wouldn't' work as a sheep farmer in Iceland, or as a tailor in Saigon, etc. But what does that have to do with the price of tea in china?

The background point is: Prostitutes do a relatively tough job, but let's face it, not much tougher than many other much LOWER paid jobs. They have no more reason to bail out on what they agree to do than construction workers or bike messengers or any number of other professions.

But okay, if 1 hour is too high an expectation, seriously: what is to be expected? 5 min? 20?

[Exon123]

When you pay for 1h cola, how long can you reasonably expect to pound her ass for?

Maybe my expectations are unrealistic: when I pay for one hour w cola and bbbj, I expect about 10 min of serious bbbj, then about 50 min in her asshole. I wouldn't consider that exceptional service – it's what I've paid for and it's what I expect.

I've found this is almost universally not how the girls see it, and it's a source of many of my disappointing sessions this trip. So far I've seen about 10 girls, and not one of them has provided good service. Generally, they can't do more than 15-20 min before they start complaining, 'encouraging' me to come. I think that's pathetic and annoying. They shouldn't agree to 1 hour w anal, if they can't do one hour anal sex. It's that simple. Am I wrong?

Fedora,

Could you do a take whole hour of cola in your ass?

Exon

[MataHari]

Your expectations are certainly unrealistic.

Lysander

I liked your post, Lysander. Showing respect and empathy to a working girl is the best way to a GFE experience. Treat her like a sex slave and she will treat you like the low life freak you showed you were (like in any other business) Buying a service doesnt exempt you from being a human being. The money you will spend will be the same, but depending on your behaviour, she has to power to make you feel like the most desirable person on earth, or castrate you emotionally. It all depends on your behaviour.

It s that marginal behaviour that makes mongers so unpopular in people s eyes. Remember that in most cases, you don t choose to open your intimacy to strangers for a few dollars, it s poverty that leads you there.

[Fedora]

Your expectations are certainly unrealistic - probably a result of watching too many porn films. The simple fact is that most girls really dislike anal sex. When you say "they shouldn't agree to one hour with anal if they can't do 1 hour with anal", that may be a valid point when the girl really is independent (you met her in a club say and discussed this with her before agreeing a price) but with privado girls the situation is different. Privado owners want their girls to offer anal sex because there is a big local demand for it and they can charge 50 or 100 pesos more per hour for "completo" than "conventional". Some privados won't even employ a girl unless she agrees to provide anal. So to put it simply, many girls, who offer anal sex only do it because they are under pressure from privado operators to do so and because they can make more money that way. Some girls have learned the technique of relaxing their anal muscles and (often with the help of anaesthetic gel) can take a pounding for as long as you like without any ill effects. I have even come across a few girls who actually seem to enjoy it. More likely however, a girl can endure it for a few minutes but will try to find anyway she can to get you to stop as soon as possible. If you can't empathise with the girls who do this, then I suggest you try this experiment. Using a dildo about the same size as your cock, fuck yourself hard in the arse for 50 minutes without stopping. Fun was it? To get the really get the feel for what it must be like for the girl, repeat the experiment a couple more times the same day.

Lysander

About the girls and the job and how hard it is - I'm sure it can be unpleasant (though they tell me that with anesthetic cream, they don't feel much at all) - however, that's the job they signed up for. Here is how I think of it: I'm sure working on road construction in the heat in the summer in Buenos Aires is really, really unpleasant - hours and hours in the burning heat digging holes in the ground with cars moving around you. It's a tough job and very unpleasant. But that's the job they signed up for, so that's what they do. They dig holes for hours. Same goes for the girls. They have a hard job. As a compensation, they make very much more than the guys digging holes all day. So I see no reason why they shouldn't do their job. It's just incompetence and laziness.

[Lysander]

When you pay for 1h cola, how long can you reasonably expect to pound her ass for?

Maybe my expectations are unrealistic: when I pay for one hour w cola and bbbj, I expect about 10 min of serious bbbj, then about 50 min in her asshole. I wouldn't consider that exceptional service – it's what I've paid for and it's what I expect.

I've found this is almost universally not how the girls see it, and it's a source of many of my disappointing sessions this trip. So far I've seen about 10 girls, and not one of them has provided good service. Generally, they can't do more than 15-20 min before they start complaining, 'encouraging' me to come. I think that's pathetic and annoying. They shouldn't agree to 1 hour w anal, if they can't do one hour anal sex. It's that simple. Am I wrong?

Your expectations are certainly unrealistic - probably a result of watching too many porn films. The simple fact is that most girls really dislike anal sex. When you say "they shouldn't agree to one hour with anal if they can't do 1 hour with anal", that may be a valid point when the girl really is independent (you met her in a club say and discussed this with her before agreeing a price) but with privado girls the situation is different. Privado owners want their girls to offer anal sex because there is a big local demand for it and they can charge 50 or 100 pesos more per hour for "completo" than "conventional". Some privados won't even employ a girl unless she agrees to provide anal. So to put it simply, many girls, who offer anal sex only do it because they are under pressure from privado operators to do so and because they can make more money that way. Some girls have learned the technique of relaxing their anal muscles and (often with the help of anaesthetic gel) can take a pounding for as long as you like without any ill effects. I have even come across a few girls who actually seem to enjoy it. More likely however, a girl can endure it for a few minutes but will try to find anyway she can to get you to stop as soon as possible. If you can't empathise with the girls who do this, then I suggest you try this experiment. Using a dildo about the same size as your cock, fuck yourself hard in the arse for 50 minutes without stopping. Fun was it? To get the feel for what it must be like for the girl, repeat the experiment a couple more times the same day.

To avoid misunderstanding about what "completo" actually means, when I visit a privado I always take the basic "conventional" option. Then when I am in bed with the girl I tell her that just because I am paying for sex doesn't mean I expect to do anything she doesn't like (CIM, CIG, ANAL, besos negros etc) and I chat to her ask her what she thinks about anal and other additional services. She might say "well although the privado says I do, it really hurts me", then that's fine with me and I stick to the conventional route. If on the other hand she says "sure that' s cool with me", then I agree to pay her a propina and away we go. A couple of times after a preliminary chat, I've even had a girl do it without asking for a propina. In fact I have often found that once I have established a good rapport with a girl, especially after a second or third visit, I get a much more enthusiastic and full-on service.

Lysander

[Julio]

When you pay for 1h cola, how long can you reasonably expect to pound her ass for?

Maybe my expectations are unrealistic: when I pay for one hour w cola and bbbj, I expect about 10 min of serious bbbj, then about 50 min in her asshole. I wouldn't consider that exceptional service – it's what I've paid for and it's what I expect.

I've found this is almost universally not how the girls see it, and it's a source of many of my disappointing sessions this trip. So far I've seen about 10 girls, and not one of them has provided good service. Generally, they can't do more than 15-20 min before they start complaining, taking about me coming. I think that's pathetic and annoying. They shouldn't agree to 1 hour of anal, if they can't do can't do one hour anal. It's that simple.

I consider posts like this are the ones which made the delight of we undevelopped natives when reading this inteligent, sensible and so open minded forum.

Thanks for the magic

[TejanoLibre]

When you pay for 1h cola, how long can you reasonably expect to pound her ass for?

Maybe my expectations are unrealistic: when I pay for one hour w cola and bbbj, I expect about 10 min of serious bbbj, then about 50 min in her asshole. I wouldn't consider that exceptional service – it's what I've paid for and it's what I expect.

I've found this is almost universally not how the girls see it, and it's a source of many of my disappointing sessions this trip. So far I've seen about 10 girls, and not one of them has provided good service. Generally, they can't do more than 15-20 min before they start complaining, taking about me coming. I think that's pathetic and annoying. They shouldn't agree to 1 hour of anal, if they can't do can't do one hour anal. It's that simple.

Last night I was with Mia under the ¨TL's Butt-Hutt¨thread and it was a very nice all anal session!

2 hour session with about 1 hour 69 followed by 1 hour anal.

Excellent service.

No cover for the 69.

Girl prefers anal.

Her sister Carolina looks a bit nicer but is not an anal queen.

After I finally got off she chewed on my tool for the last 15 minutes while watching herself in the mirror the whole time.

In fact the mirror is about 2 feet from the bed so she loves to watch your best friend slide in and out of her very muscular butt!

Non-smoker chica!

Yes!

Good kisser!

Fake blonde!

Oh well!

2 hours for 2 hundred but their rate must be checked!

You must mention this site or TL's name untill they pull their heads out of their asses and realize that we are a FORCE to be rekoned with!

Take Care,

R

[Fedora]

When you pay for 1h cola, how long can you reasonably expect to pound her ass for?

Maybe my expectations are unrealistic: when I pay for one hour w cola and bbbj, I expect about 10 min of serious bbbj, then about 50 min in her asshole. I wouldn't consider that exceptional service – it's what I've paid for and it's what I expect.

I've found this is almost universally not how the girls see it, and it's a source of many of my disappointing sessions this trip. So far I've seen about 10 girls, and not one of them has provided good service. Generally, they can't do more than 15-20 min before they start complaining, 'encouraging' me to come. I think that's pathetic and annoying. They shouldn't agree to 1 hour w anal, if they can't do one hour anal sex. It's that simple. Am I wrong?